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"Romantic Things To Say To A Girl."
Knowing The Right Romantic Things To Say To A Girl Can Really Help You Become More "Intimate" At The Appropriate Time.
Do you want to learn how to make a girl's heart melt using just your words? Here are some tips for romantic things to say to a girl.
First off: What is romance?
The Oxford American Dictionary has several definitions for the noun “romance,” but two stand out here: “a feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love,” and “a quality or feeling of mystery, excitement, and remoteness from everyday life.”
The same dictionary has similar definitions for the adjective “romantic”: “inclined toward or suggestive of the feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love”; “relating to love, especially in a sentimental or idealized way”; and “of, characterized by, or suggestive of an idealized view of reality.”
So when you’re looking for romantic things to say to a girl, it has to be something that will take her away from the world she lives, and compel her to want to escape to a new, idealized world with you!
The most romantic things you can say to a girl bring forth the romantic feelings that you want her to feel, that she yearns to experience, and compels her to feel them about you!
One of the most romantic messages you can give to a girl is that you have chosen her. You didn’t choose her because you were desperate; you didn’t choose her because you didn’t have other options; you chose her because you liked her, and you wanted her to be with you on the adventure that is your life. (Notice how I said, “you wanted her to be with you.” Saying “you wanted to be with her” implies that she is the adventure. Women want to be taken on an adventure, not to be the adventure.)
Women like a strong man who isn't afraid to take action and go for what he wants. But women also like men who can showcase vulnerabilty, without coming off like a wussy. All you have to do is look at the Romance Novel section of Barns & Noble to know what I'm talking about. This is the idea of the "Romantic Hero."
Understand: If you embody her idea of romance, then romance will come naturally!
But is there a time when you need ot LAY ON the romance?
Of course there is, but you don’t want to lay it on right away, unless you want to freak her out. (Some guys have actually been known to get all lovey-dovey on girls within minutes fo meeting them!)
Look - romance is something you build up to. You have to be able to establish a certain level of COMFORT and TRUST with the girl before your romantic notions come off as genuine.
Until that happens, you're just a "wierdo" if you start talking about being soul mates and things like that.
And you also don’t want to say romantic words that you don’t mean just because you think she'll want to hear them. She’ll see right through it, and she won’t forget it!
But if you can make her feel special in a way she’s never felt before, she’ll always remember you for it.
There are countless ways to express yourself romantically, because the words you use to deliver your romantic message are less important than the message you give her.
Telling her something like, “I never thought I would feel this way about anyone before” will melt her if it’s true, and you’ve been together for a long time. Words like “I feel so alive when I’m with you,” “I can’t believe the feeling I get when we kiss,” can also help her feel more bonded with you.
Your romantic words will mean so much more if they seem spontaneous to her. The moment has to feel right. So don’t spring them until there’s a moment when you feel emotionally close together that just feels right to you, and when you know it feels right to her!
When you do say romantic things to a girl, try to say them in a way that evokes emotion.
Use language to describe sensations and feelings, such as "You know that feeling you get when you just know you're with the right person? That warm, fuzzy feeling right in your chest that let's you know you're safe with this person? That's how you make me feel."
Oddly enough, anything can sound romantic if you say it with the right feeling. Think of an actor who delivers his lines with real emotion behind them, and you'll know what I'm talking about.
Saying "You're the most beautiful girl int he world," in an even, flat tone, will not come off as romantic. But saying that with sincerity in your voice will.
And if you can't think of anything to say to a girl that is romantic, try making strong eye contact with her, and then experience the emotions you feel for her. Believe it or not, that feeling WILL be communicated to her through your eye contact!
But knowing how to be romantic and say romantic things to a woman is only a small part of the puzzel when it comes to getting a girlfriend.
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Wishing you success,
Author of The Art Of Approaching Women