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"Here's How To Talk To Girls"
Talking To Girls Is Actually Much Simpler Than You Think, If You Know The Secret "Tricks" To Keeping Conversations Going Strong...
Do you feel lost and clueless when it comes to talking to girls?
Are your friends no help in helping you learn how to talk to women?
If that’s the case, you’re not alone. Here’s some tips to help you get started!
A lot of guys don’t talk to girls because they find it’s difficult for them to do. Even some of the strongest, most intimidating guys out there are afraid to do it!
It’s not because they lack courage. It’s because no one really taught them properly how to talk to women. But if you learn how to talk to girls, you’ll find it can be easier than you think!
Talking to girls is something you’ll have to do anyway if you want to have any kind of sex life, so you might as well overcome your fear of it. It’s probably just as hard or as easy as you believe that it is, so if you think that it’s going to be stressful and difficult, then that’s the way it’s going to be for you.
But if you believe that taking to girls can be fun and easy - then it can be fun and easy for you!
(And wouldn't you rather it talking to smoking hot women be fun instead of a chore?)
As you become more comfortable talking to girls, you’ll find that they’ll be more comfortable talking to you! Conversely, if you feel weird talking to girls, or if you think you’ll come across as a creep, then the girls you talk to will reflect those attitudes back to you.
This is because of a notion called "rapport."
The basic concept behind this is that once an emotional connection if formed between two people, they begin to intuitively experience the emotions of the other person!
So when you talk to girls, it's important to remember to FOCUS on having a good time and a good conversation rather than focusing on your nervousness or negative feelings which could "freak her out."
But don't worry, When you’ve experienced success while learning how to talk to women, you’ll start to know intuitively how it’s done!
Learning how to talk to women is about more than just deciding that you’re going to talk to her (though that is a vital first step!). It’s also about knowing what you’re going to SAY when you speak with her.
Even the best pickup artists can tell you that they feel anxiety when they approach a woman, and that it’s hard for them to think of original things to say on the spot.
That’s why they use pre-canned "pick up lines" to use every time they meet a girl they’d like to approach. The less they have to think about it when they approach, the easier it is for them!
And once you've started the conversation, it can be extremely easy to transition into different conversational threads.
You do this through the use of questions.
So for instance, let's say you approach a girl with a pick up line, such as "Hey, can I get your opinion on something? Do you think its okay for a man to wear thumb rings?"
Once you get her answer, you can ask her why she thinks the way she does.
Then, after that, you can ask her something more personal, like weather or not she's the type of girl who loves to get jewelry as preasents, or whatever.
From there, you can take the conversation in many different directions.
The important think to remember is not to linger too much on "boring" questions, like "What's your name?" or "What do you do?"
Instead, you want to phrase these questions in a more interesting way that engages the girl in deeper conversation.
For instance, instead of saying "What's your name?" ask her something like "Is your name Shelly, by any chance? You look like a Shelly." If she says no, make two more guesses and then say "I give up. What's your name?" Then once she gives it to you, you can say "Okay, your turn. What's my name?"
So you just turned a ho-hum boring question into a fun game that gets you and the girl talking to each other!
See how it works?
And it doesn't come off as fake or insincere either.
A lot of people object to using canned material because they feel it’s dishonest to say the same things to a lot of different girls. But how dishonest is it?
A comedian won’t go on stage every night and perform material that’s been made up on the spot. You probably don’t think of new and clever things to say when you phone up your friends, either.
And politicians and other people (like actors, rockstars, whatever) who meet a lot of people don’t think of original things to say every time they shake a new hand. A scripted line like “Pleasure to meet you” might work so well in many situations for them that no one will realize it’s a scripted routine – including the person delivering it!
Also, what you say to a girl isn’t nearly as important as HOW you say it.
If you’re in the moment when you deliver a canned line or routine, it will be a lot more meaningful to her than if you think of something clever to say but you’re nervous when you say it.
You can find a lot of great canned material on websites like this one, but don’t go overboard when you’re starting out. You don’t make your brain hurt when you talk to girls! You only need a few good lines and routines that fit your personality to do a solid pickup, and you can learn more opening lines later.
As you learn how to talk to girls, you’ll discover that it doesn’t have to be a stressful ordeal for you. If you keep it up, you’ll eventually find yourself looking forward to situations where you’ll meet women!
But if you want a little more tuteledge, I recommend you sign up for my compimentary "How To Meet Women" crash course, which you can do by entering your name and email address on the right-hand side of this page.
By doing so, you'll INSTANTLY get tons of great information that will take you, step-by-step, through the process of how to not only talk to girls, but how to get them to go out with you and become your girlfriend!
I wish I had such a resource available to me when I first started my journey to master my love life. But you better sign up now, because I don't know if I'll be offering this course after .
Wishing you success,

Author of The Art Of Approaching Women
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