How To Meet Women After College

When you’re in college, meeting women can be easy.  After all, every class you go to, you’ll find yourself sitting next to one!  You’ll run into them at the library, a frat party, a football game, the dining halls…

The list goes on and on.

The fact of that matter is that school is very conducive to meeting women.  And that makes the process of getting dates much easier than it normally would be.

But what happens when you get out of college and enter *gulp* the real world?

While in school, you have a number of activities, sports, clubs, study sessions, and all types of other social gatherings to help you meet girls, once you’re out of school, your life will typically consist of two things:

Work and home.

You wake up, you go to your job, and then you go home, eat, go to bed, and repeat everything the next day.

The transition to entering the rat race after college is done can be depressing for a lot of men, because their lives become entirely centered around their jobs.

This means that the pool of women they have to choose from is limited to thewomen they meet at their jobs, or the women who live close to them.

And whenever your options are limited, that’s NEVER a good thing.

The key to meeting lots of great, high quality women after graduating from college is to keep being as social as possible, and don’t let your life be consumed by your job.

Here are some tips to help you meet women after college:

TIP #1:  Use The Internet

This should seem like a no-brainer.  Online dating is great for men who are too busy to go out and meet new girls.  So you should always be using the internet to meet new women.  This is probably the fastest and easiest way to meet girls.

TIP #2:  Get Out Of The House

Afte a long day of work, sometimes the last thing we want to do is go out at night.  But if you don’t go out, how do you expect to meet anybody?

Set aside one or two days a week where you go out with the specific intention to meet women.  Whether it be going to a bar to pick up a girl, or going out on a date, it’s important you make time for your love life.

TIP #3:  Take Advantage Of Errands

No matter how hard we work, we still have to do things throughout the course of our daily lives.  Whether it be going grocery shopping, or taking your suit to the dry cleaners, there’s always something we have to do for ourselves.

When this occurs, don’t just rush to get your errands done.  Take advantage of opportunities when you see them!  After all, lots of girls have to go grocery shopping and drop off clothes for dry cleaning as well.  So if you see a girl you find attractive while running errands, take some time and meet her!

TIP #4:  Happy Hour

The hour before work starts and around the time work typically ends is a great time to meet girls – if you’re in the right place!  In the morning, it’s coffee shops women go to for their morning cup of java.  After work, it’s the bar with the cheap drinks.

Go to these places at the right time, and you’ll find tons of women just hanging out, waiting to grab a drink before heading home.  Use this time to your advantage!  Women L-O-V-E to be social in both these places.

TIP #5:  Throw Parties

In college, a great way to meet girls is to throw a party and invite them over.  Well, that doesn’t change after you’re out of school.  Throwing parties is a great way to meet new people!

Organize a get together somewhere, make sure there’s plenty to eat and drink, and invite everyone you know to show up.  And have them invite everyone THEY know as well!

Being the “Party Guy” can really score you a lot of points with girls who are looking to have a bit of excitement in their lives.  And it can be a lot of fun too!

Tip #6:  Pursue Your Passions

Don’t let work rule your life.  Continue to pursue your passions.  If you like college basketball, continue to go out to games.  If you like live music, continue to go to concerts.  Whatever it is you enjoy, go out and do it, and while you’re doing it, meet as many women as you possibly can.

After all, chances are there are some girls who share your passions!  And what better way to start a conversation than to talk about something you both love?

The worst thing you can do is just spend all your time working and watching TV.  That won’t get you anywhere.  Just take action, get out of the house, and know how to start conversations with women.

When you’re able to do all that successfully, meeting girls out in the “real world” is both fun and easy.

Meeting Older Women

Let’s face it, some things just get better with age.  Things like fine wine, Cuban cigars, and yes, even women!

Meeting a woman who’s older than you can actually be quite a good way to meet a fantastic partner.  Usually, older women are much more experienced, not only in relationships, but also in the bedroom.

So meeting older women can actually teach you a ting or two – not only about relationships, but also about what you’re really looking for in a partner.

So the real question is:

Are you interested in dating a woman who’s older than you are?

Do you find older women more attractive than their younger counterparts?

Well, my friend, you are not alone!

Older women are much more “mature” and experienced in the ways of love. They’ve usually had a lot of practice dealing with men, and know their way around the bedroom.

They can also be MUCH easier to deal with than younger women, who can tend to be a little “high maintenance.”

If you’re a man in your mid-to-late 20s who’s mostly been with women in their late teens and early 20s, dating a woman in her 40s can be a real treat for you!

They tend to be more mature and less selfish – sexually, and in just about every other way – than the women you’re used to dating. And if you’re not looking for anything serious, the chances are higher that they’re not either, if they’re just past child-bearing age.

In that way, they’re kind of like a lot of women in their mid-20s and younger, who don’t feel compelled to start a family in the way that single women who’ve hit 28 or 29 do. By the time a single woman reaches that age range, she’s more likely to feel that now’s the time to act if she’s ever going to have children.

That’s because she’s not getting any younger, and she feels less attractive than she was when she was in her early 20s. In her mind, it’s only going to get harder to find a great man she can settle down with.

(By the way, a lot of women at this stage make a mistake that a lot of men make their entire lives: they get desperate. Some women actually repel men because of their desire to get into a serious relationship sooner than the man is comfortable with. And a lot of women at this stage will settle for a man who they’re not compatible with, but who will end up fulfilling their need to have a family.)

So how can you start meeting older women?

You’re not so likely to find them at trendy nightclubs, but you can find them just about everywhere else you can find attractive women: while you’re out shopping, at coffee houses, local bars, or in bookstores. You can also meet them through school, volunteer activities or through friends.

But bar none, the BEST place to meet older women is online dating sites.

Sites like Match.com and E-Harmony have a bevy of older women just looking for some guy to come along and sweep them off their feet.

Some of them have kids, most of them are divorced, but one thing they all have in common is that they’re probably looking to have a good time!

Also, more and more over 30 women are heading towards social networking sites like MySpace as a way to meet new people. Just by doing a quick search for your target age range in your local area on MySpace will yield a number of potential older women you can meet.

But there are problems with dating older women. You may not be as mature as she is, which can be a problem for both of you. And the age difference can become rather awkward should you decide to get married: If there’s a 15-year age difference between you, then she’ll be 50 when you’re 35!

But that’s not to say that you shouldn’t meet and date an older woman. It can be a great experience for you, if you’re aware of the potential issues that can arise in the relationship.

Honestly, the art of meeting and dating older women could fill a book, and unfortunately, I just don’t have the time to go as much into detail with this as I would like.

So if you’re interested in learning more about how to meet and date older women (or just women in general), then I would highly recommend you sign up for my free How To Meet Women crash course.

No where else on the internet will you find such a detailed and comprehensive resource – for free, no less – on how to meet and date the women of your dreams.

I will show you all the secrets you need to know on how to overcome your anxiety of approaching women, and how to not get rejected – EVER – so you can actually have FUN meeting and dating women instead of feeling like its a chore.

Just click this link to sign up for it now:

Click Here For Your Free How To Meet Women Crash Course!

It just takes a few seconds to sign up, and you’ll get instant access to it once you do.

But hurry, I don’t know how much longer I’ll be making this resource available for free.

Wishing you success,

Joseph Matthews
Author of The Art Of Approaching Women

Picking Up Women

If your goal is to be picking up women, then don’t let all the movie and TV shows fool you.  You don’t have to be a “clown” or a “sleaseball” to effectively pick up a beautiful woman.  In fact, picking up women can actually be an easy and extremely fun task to undertake.  You just need to make a few simple preparations to prepare for success.

You can never really know when a pickup is going to go well, but there are ways you can prepare. So here’s some steps for success BEFORE you go out picking up women!

When you go to a place where you know there will be attractive women, make the decision that you’re actually going to pick them up!

Too often, guys will go out with no real goal in mind. And guess what? When you have no outcome in mind – you’ll usually end up with NOTHING.

But if you go out with a specific goal, your chances of achieving that goal go up DRAMATICALLY.

It doesn’t matter if it’s as simple as “Talk To One Woman Tonight,” or as ambitious as “Get Two Women To Come Home For A Threesome.”

As long as you have a goal, your chances of picking up a girl will increase substantially.

You don’t even have to be GOING OUT to pick up women. Maybe you’re visiting a food court in mid-afternoon because you’re feeling hungry, and you know you’ll spot at least one attractive woman there who you could see later.

You may or may not succeed in your quest, but you’re much more likely to have a positive outcome if you go with the mindset that you can pull off a successful pickup.

Always take a pen and paper, or at least your cell phone, wherever you go. You’ll need it for when you exchange numbers with women. Be sure to keep a condom with you, too, just in case! Knowing that you have protection on hand is just one more thing that will keep you from chickening out.

Remember: Do Not Give Yourself An Excuse NOT To Pick Up Women!

Picking up women is a mental exercise.  It’s about overcoming your fear, apprehension, and insecurities.  In short:  going up to a woman with the intent of picking her up is HARD.

So the more factors you have working against you, the easier it will be to justify NOT talking to the girl you want to.

This is a bad, bad, bad idea.  Because it’s always easier NOT to do something than it is to actually just DO IT!

That is why you must mentally prepare yourself for going through with the pick up.  Visualize the outcome you want.  Psych yourself up.  Push yourself to go through with it.

Know your environment. When you meet a girl you like, you’ll want to get together with her soon – preferably the same day, while her attraction for you is still high. Be aware of good places nearby where you can “bounce” to, like bars, coffee houses, lounges, art galleries, or other fun place where you and your “target” can have a change of scenery.

You’ll want to go to a place that’s low-key enough so you can get to know each other better. When you bounce from one location to another, it’s like you’re going on another date. Why wait for another week to pass by to take her on another date so you can build comfort with her, when you know you can do it on the same day?

Have a place in mind where you can become intimate with her. If you live nearby and you can bring her home, so much the better.

Have an excuse to take her home that has nothing to do with sex. You can have a DVD that she’s never seen but has to see, or an exotic drink she’s never tried, or some photos you’ve taken of a place where you’ve been that she’s never seen. Or you can play her a song that you’ve written. It doesn’t matter, as long as it makes her comfortable enough to come over!

Look – there is so much I have to share with you on the topic of picking up women, I could go on FOREVER.

If you’re the type of guy who’s ever struggled with picking up women, then you know how there will never be a lack of interest on this subject.

That is why I am offering my elite “How To Meet Women” Crash Course to you absolutely free.  All you have to do is visit my website to get free instant access to it right now.

In just seconds, you’ll get my first tip on how to pick up women, and they’ll keep on coming – a new one every day – until you finally get the girl you’ve always dreamed of.

So just visit my How To Meet Women website and sign up for my special crash course today!  The longer you wait, the longer it will take you to find the girl of your dreams.

Wishing you success,

Joseph Matthews
Author of The Art Of Approaching Women

Announcing: Renegade Rapport!

The countdown has begun!

On Thursday, February 1st, at 9:00 am Pacific time, 12:00 pm Eastern time, the brand new Renegade Rapport course will go LIVE. People have been buzzing about this course for almost a month now, and I’ve gotten lots of emails from guys practically begging me for an early way to reserve their copies.

I’ve also been releasing information about the course to my special pre-announcement list for about two weeks now. For those of you who missed these, here they are:

1. The Free Self-Mastery Method eBook

2. The Free Renegade Report eBook

3. The Free Teleconference Audio

4. The First Renegade Rapport Sneak Peek!

5. The Second Renegade Rapport Sneak Peek!

6. The FINAL Renegade Rapport Sneak Peek!

And finally, tomorrow, you guys are going to get your first chance to reserve your copy of this amazing new course. Check out this email I got from a guy who just used WHAT HE HEARD about rapport from the freebies listed above (he doesn’t even have the course yet!) and look at what he has to say…

Dwight writes:

I was in class today, sitting next to a girl I talk to lightly. I actually own an NLP book and it really fascinated me. Ya buddy, unlike you I actually really like NLP.

But I remember there was a section in there about rapport, and I’ve been listening repeatedly to your interviews.

I went online and found some more articles about rapport and with all this new knowledge, I thought I’d try it out, so I began mirroring her posture.

Mind you, this girl sits next to me. Anyway, after I began mirroring her, she reinitiated conversation with me, and slowly we began to talk and it really did feel like we were old friends.

She waited for me to leave, we walked out together, we walked closer to each other and I was trying to match her tone of voice and rhythm.

OMG.

You’ve made a breakthrough man! I’ve tried everything you’ve published and I can’t wait to get a copy of the course for myself.

This stuff really does feel natural!

I’m so excited about Thursday. By my birthday on the 24th, and I’m going to have some good rapport skills developed. Booya!

Wait until you get to see for yourself what Renegade Rapport can do for you! This guy Dwight just used ONE very simple rapport technique, and look what he experienced! In this course, I go into great detail about how easy it is to create rapport with any girl you want.

But that’s not the real trick…

The REAL benefit of Renegade Rapport is that you are actually able to take the rapport you create, and lead it towards sex and seduction! And it all progresses in a very slick, natural way. No memorization! No gimmicks! No routines!

Here’s some of what you’ll learn in the Renegade Rapport course…

• How to instantly create deep rapport with a woman within minutes when you first meet her (and in some cases, BEFORE you even meet her!).
• How to quickly and easily initiate rapport with anyone you want.
• How to establish rapport fast.
• How to know if you really have rapport or not.
• What to talk about with women exactly to build rapport.
• How to “transition” into rapport, step by step.
• How to keep rapport going throughout the encounter.
• How to create rapport in a way that’s effortless and hard to detect.
• How to create rapport without asking a lot of boring “interview” type questions.
• How to create rapport – even if you’re painfully shy.
• Why it’s just as easy to gain rapport with super-hot women as it is with average women?
• How your environment affects rapport building – and how to avoid it’s pitfalls.
• How to keep rapport with a woman you’ve been with for a long time, and even strengthen it if need be.
• How you can actually use rapport to know what kind of a girl you are interacting with (this will help you spot “crazy bitches” from a mile away!).
• How to use rapport to avoid the biggest frustration guys have when it comes to picking up women – Flaking!
• How to gain rapport without coming off as needy or phoney
• How to use rapport to change a girl’s emotional state from a cold fish to one of intense lust and attraction.
• Why you can’t have attraction without rapport.
• How to move the interaction towards seduction once in rapport.
• How to create rapport when you encounter a group, especially if one or more of them “challenge” you.
• The exact mindset you should have when talking to a girl you’re interested in.
• How to build strong rapport with a woman you feel is WAY out of your league.
• How to build rapport without coming across as being a jerk.
• How to “rebuild” rapport with women whom you had a failure in building rapport with before.
• How to keep a woman interested in you while dating so that she doesn’t feel the need for male attention elsewhere.
• How, and at what point, to shift the vibe to a sexual one when building rapport.
• The stages of rapport a woman will go through, and the indicators for each.
• How to initiate and build rapport anywhere – even in a loud and noisy bar or club.
• The exact things women like to talk about when building rapport.
• Getting past the initial “coldness” when dealing with women.
• How to make someone feel like they’ve known you for a long time within a few minutes.
• How to tell if you have rapport.
• How to gain rapport without falling into the “Let’s Just Be Friends” category.
• And much more…

So if you want to reserve your copy of Renegade Rapport when it goes live tomorrow, you need to click on this link right now:

www.renegaderapport.com

And be there at 9 am so you can be one of the firsts to reserve your copy.

SPECIAL BONUS NOTE: Anyone who buys whithin the first TWO HOURS of Renegade Rapport’s release will recieve a special bonus of being able to attend two special teleseminars where me and other rapport experts will listen to your questions and help you through your sticking points! So be sure to reserve your copy EARLY!

Renegade Rapport Sneak Preview! (Part 1)

All righty…

I just released the first sneak preview of the Renegade Rapport course!  In this insider’s look, you’ll get to hear our first Rapport Expert, David Van Arrick, explain how you can master your emotional state in order to get women attracted to you.

(Seriously, it’s pretty cool stuff!)

All you need to do to check it out is click here now.

Special Renegade Rapport Teleconference Audio!

Hey everyone,

For the weekend, I am leaking the audio of my special teleconference I held last Thursday, so all those of you who missed it can listen in on what we discussed (and we talked about some REALLY cool stuff!).

Check it out by clicking here.

Renegade Rapport – REVEALED!

Okay, you guys asked for it, and here it is!  The very first SPY PHOTO of the full Renegade Rapport course!  Remember, the course is being released on February 1st.  If you want to get your chance at being one of the first to witness this new technology, please click here now.

Will Hicks + Carlos Xuma = Bacardi & Cola!

Okay, so new news about the latest PUA team up…

I got a call from Will Hicks a few days ago. Will is the author of the book You Are So In My Way, and has also appeared on numerous Double Your Dating products.  I first met Will at the Double Your Dating Mastery seminar way back in 2004 (or was it 2005?  I forget.).  And for those of you who don’t know Will, he is a HUGE black guy!  I mean – gigantic!  But don’t let that fool ya, he’s one of the most gentle souls you’ll ever meet.

Anyway, Will used to be a bouncer at a night club, and now he’s making his professional transition into the professional men’s dating advice realm.  But he isn’t doing it alone, no sir!  Will told me himself that he’ll be teaming up with non other than Dating Dynamic’s own Carlos Xuma!

Never has a whiter-white man teamed up with a bigger black dude!  This was such an odd pairing, I couldn’t help but chuckle.  But these men are both great pick up artists, and them working together is sure to produce some incredible things.

So I am now officially dubbing this new dynamic duo “Bacardi & Cola,” since they are destined to have many odd-couple like adventures around the world.

More on this as it develops…

Golddigging Goes Commercial…

Looks like Speed-Dating is getting down to the nitty gritty… guys looking for hot chicks, girls looking for MONEY.  Read the following, if you can stomache it.

Jan. 25, 2007— Jimmy Cyrus is a 25-year-old New York City bachelor who works 16-hour days.

He also happens to be wealthy, an asset that makes him eligible for the upcoming “Natural Selection” speed-dating event open only to “rich guys” and “hot girls.”

Cyrus, who works in real estate, is one of nearly 150 well-to-do single men in the running for the Feb. 7 Manhattan matchmaking event.

If he makes the cut, the ticket costs $500. But for that steep a fee Cyrus may have a chance to meet Heather Tierney, a 27-year-old entrepreneur living in New York, who has also applied to attend the matchmaking event. If the Indianapolis native is chosen, her entrance fee is just $30.

Speed-dating is nothing new. For the past few years, single Americans have spent evenings in bars getting paired up with other singletons in four- to eight-minute “dates.”

But the upcoming “Natural Selection” gathering puts a spin on the trend by reinforcing some age-old ideas about relationships: Men go for looks, and women prowl for money.

Yes, let’s bring out the most shallow possible needs of our customers!  Jeesh.  Personally, I see this as a HUGE disaster for the men who participate in this sucker.  I mean, if all you want is a hot chick who’s after money, why not just hire an escort?  It’s New York, you know you could find a high class one who’d be happy to give you sex for your fat wallet.

At least with the escort, you’re bank account is somewhat protected.  The girls who’d go to these things looking for rich guys could verry well be looking to entrap some poor sod.  They’ll either lead him on while milking him dry, or worse, get knocked up and have a piece of his paycheck FOREVER!

*shudder*

It’s true – money can’t buy you love.  It CAN buy you sex, though.  So if that’s all you’re after, why pay $500 to go to a freakin SPEED DATING event?  Spend that $500 on a sure thing.  Or better yet, get some nice new clothes with that money, and go out and meet a woman on your own!

I get the feeling there are going to be a lot of men taken advantage of at this event.  But that’s what you get for celebrating the worst people have to offer.

$25 Seminar?

Stephen Nash, over at How-To-Get-A Girlfriend.com is offering a $25 seminar!

(Personally, I think he’s selling himself short.)

For those of you not “hip with the now,” Stephen has been a regular figure on my Top 10 List for a few years now.  This is a great opportunity to check him out!

The seminar will be held in New York city on March 11th, so if you’re in that area, this would be a great opportunity for ya!

Click Here to learn more.

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