Comments for How To Meet Women

Comment on Beware that “One Special Girl!” by cybersupam

cybersupam — Wed, 30 Nov 2011 20:38:48 +0000

This is the perfect article I’ve been looking for over a week. Finally I got it here…right from you.
Hello Joseph. I’m a guy who can never take the right step in getting the ‘special girl’ available for him. It happened three times, and flopped in all of these. It was because I only ran after ‘one special girl’ 3 times to 3 different times, and avoided others who came around me, just egotistically bothered about that “special girl”.
Recent, and third one, happened just 2 weeks before when she rejected me on the spot, even though how much I seriously followed her.
On reading this article, I realized that I’m a same type of guy how you were before. So I need to change this characteristic, and I must change from today onwards.
Thank you million times for helping a poor lover like me.

Comment on Beware that “One Special Girl!” by Joseph Matthews

Joseph Matthews — Thu, 13 Oct 2011 23:37:05 +0000

Let me ask you: What kind of women ARE you attracted to, and why aren’t you meeting more of them? If the women you’re meeting aren’t doing it for you, then you need to “expand the pool” of women that you’re choosing to meet.

Too many guys just settle for meeting women at work, or whatever, because it’s EASY. If you’re not meeting the type of girls you want, then you’re not doing enough to make that happen.

I personally don’t recommend blowing women off just because they don’t respond how you’d like them to. Give them a chance. Some can come around. For instance, if my approach doesn’t work, i might try a different approach before I NEXT her and move on. Or, if I don’t hear back from her after getting her number, I’ll give her 3 opportunities to get back to me before I move on, etc. As a side note, if a woman doesn’t respond well to you, then chances are something’s wrong with how you’re approaching her, and you need to change your tactic. They shouldn’t be adjusting to you, YOU should be adjusting to THEM. (At least initially.)

Comment on Beware that “One Special Girl!” by bmccull

bmccull — Thu, 13 Oct 2011 22:38:59 +0000

I agree with all your points…

HOWEVER,

I find that I am attracted to fewer and fewer women. It is getting rare to meet one that I feel is worth the effort. When I do meet her, should I just blow her off because she doesn’t respond the way I would like?

Comment on Overcoming Shyness by Graham

Graham — Tue, 30 Nov 2010 00:50:52 +0000

You’re definitely onto something here Joseph. The secret to confidence in social situations is to learn _and practice_ new ways of communicating which lead to the results we want. The problem of shyness isn’t about who we are; it’s all about how we’re communicating. Cheers, Graham from The Confident Man Project.

Comment on Picking Up Women by TC

TC — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 05:42:22 +0000

Hey Joseph I really enjoyed your blog post. Taking your phone is always a key especially if you are going to meet women. I always take their number, whenever a woman says to get yours nine times out of ten she will not call you. So you must get her number.

And taking her into your reality also makes the date more comfortable and enjoyable. I really liked your tips of jumping from venue to venue as it adds a great deal of excitment and she has to rely on you so you become the focus of her reality.

This was a great post and thoroughly enjoyed.

Take Care.

Comment on eHarmony Review — A Man’s Perspective by chanel

chanel — Sat, 19 Jul 2008 22:29:31 +0000

Is it any wonder that this guy has no luck with woman? Obviously eharmony is for people who are looking for a soul mate. Someone compatible. I am an attractive woman who used regular sites and didn’t have a problem lining up dates. I even met a couple of boyfriends to be. What happened though was that these men turned out to be jerks just like this one. Totally incompatible with who I was as a spiritual person. How a guy can say that he isn’t very good looking and than whinge about the lack of pretty woman is what gets me. Even the pretty woman knowing this attitude wouldn’t give this man the time of day. Talk about double standards. Sorry buddy, but usually the ugly date the ugly. If he is looking for sexual gratification only, he should have just gone to a prostitute. Of coarse finding a compatible partner isn’t going to be easy!! I just joined eharmony, and am hoping that the douchebag days are behind me.

Comment on A Mehow Controversy? by djfuji

djfuji — Sun, 22 Apr 2007 06:33:31 +0000

Disagree. Society isn’t ready for what the community is all about. It’s like the metrosexual movement. Try to introduce that in the 70s and see what happens. Oh sure there were guys getting manicures and taking care of their skin and dressing well in the 70s…but they kept it secret. They had enough sense to know that society wasn’t ready for it. Perhaps one day in the near future society will mature and accept what we’re doing. But right now…it’s too early. You couldnt sugar coat it enough to make it socially acceptable.

Comment on The Mystery Method Civil War by Super Blogs » Mystery Method

Super Blogs » Mystery Method — Fri, 13 Apr 2007 12:05:05 +0000

[...] The Mystery Method Civil War The rumor was Mehow was able to steal Mystery away from his own company to team up with him. (Wierd, I know, but that?s how it seemed.) I called this feuding with Mehow, jokingly, the ?Mystery Method Civil War.? … [...]

Comment on Announcing: Renegade Rapport! by AlekNovi

AlekNovi — Sat, 24 Mar 2007 16:44:34 +0000

Funny how

1) the moment that the course was sold, this blog died, whereas every single day leading up to it, it was brimming with life.

2) The course starts out with thundercat explaining how “this isn’t a ripoff” and “isn’t a make a few bucks quick type of release”

Huh? It’s odd when someone answers a question he wasn’t asked “i didn’t do it!”

3) The product has about 4CDs worth of material and it’s stretched out on 10. hehe…

Comment on Announcing The Top 10 Pick Up Artists Of 2006! by sargenation.com

sargenation.com — Wed, 14 Mar 2007 17:10:37 +0000

Who were the top PUA’s of 2006?

Thundercat reveals who he thinks were the top pua’s this past year.