Attracting Girls Through Humor
Good Humor Can Make Any Woman Attracted To You
A lot of guys really get caught up with their “looks” when it comes to attracting women.
They think only “good looking guys” can get girls into them. However, they’re only focusing on ONE SMALL ASPECT of attraction.
See, men place a large importance on physical attractiveness because that’s what initially attracts us to women – their looks.
So we assume that women must be attracted to our looks as well!
Now, I’m not going to tell you that your physical appearance plays no role in whether or not a woman finds you attractive, because it does.
But it isn’t as IMPORTANT as you might think it is.
To women, physical appearance is only a SMALL FACTOR when it comes to attraction. (Sure, there are exceptions, but for the most part, I’ve found this to be the case.)
A bigger factor in a woman’s attraction to a man is how he can make her FEEL.
Understand – women are emotional creatures. They’re more hard-wired to respond emotionally than men are. This is just how nature made them.
If you can appeal to her EMOTIONALLY, even if you’re not her “physical type,” you can still attract her.
And nothing creates emotion more powerful than HUMOR.
So let’s talk about how you can use humor to attract women to you…
First of all, let me just get something straight with you: YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE FUNNY TO USE HUMOR!
Yes, I know, that might sound confusing. Let me explain…
A big obstacle most guys run into with using humor is that limiting belief: “But I’m just not that funny!”
However, this means they don’t really know what “humor” means to begin with.
See, “Humor” is a state of mind. It’s an attitude. It’s about being positive, not about being funny.
“Funny” is a verb to describe something you do. “Humor” is meant to describe what you’re experiencing.
So when I talk about using “humor,” I’m really talking about using fun, positive energy to excite and inspire people around you.
And most of the time, that will make the people around you laugh, joke, and have a good time!
So get the idea out of your head that you need to be funny to use humor. It’s just not the case!
Instead, you should focus on the following things…
1. Smile
This is a simple thing, but too often guys forget to smile! A smiling person is always more attractive than someone who’s frowning or looking serious.
Plus, emotions follow body language, so if you want to change your emotions, change your body. If you smile, then you’ll eventually feel like you’re having a good time.
In addition, women love nice smiles. So give them what they want!
2. Be Positive
People in general love positivity. This is because people in general don’t feel good most of the time, so someone who can come along and inspire them, and MAKE them feel better is highly prized.
I have a very good friend of mine who is not funny at all. Yet, he is one of the most positive people on the planet Earth, and women flock to him because they just love his attitude.
Positivity goes a long way to making people feel good around you, and when you’re gone, they’ll miss that feeling. This is a key element in attraction.
3. Have Fun
Don’t get too caught up in what other people think is “fun.” Instead, focus on having a good time yourself. If you’re having fun, you can ensure that other people can join you and have fun as well.
If you’re bored, you’re not doing anyone any favors. Try and focus on your own state of mind and have a good time no matter what you’re doing.
4. Talk With And Engage People
This is the most important step, because if you don’t talk with or engage people, you won’t be able to spread your humor to them.
When you’re having fun and being positive, you’ll naturally feel more outgoing and engaging with people. In fact, you might even start joking around and make people laugh!
So its important to do this – especially with women. I like to say: If you can make a girl have fun with you, you can make her sleep with you! And the more engaging you are, the more fun that girl will have!
If you want to learn more about how to talk to women, be engaging in conversation, and how to be more humorous and fun in general, then you need to check out my course The Art Of Approaching.
In it, I share with you my PROVEN STRATEGIES for meeting and attracting women.
And if you want a super-intense bootcamp on how to maximize your personality for attractiveness, check out my course Pure Personality.
There, I go into incredible detail on how you can tailor your personality to be irresistible to women – so much so it doesn’t matter what you look like!
Check Out Pure Personality Here!
And as always, I love to hear from you guys. So leave your questions and creative responses in the comment section below!
