How To Deal With Rejection From Women

The Best Way To Deal With Rejection Is To Make Sure It Never Happens!

It’s probably the thing every guy hates the most when it comes to dealing with girls…

REJECTION.

Nothing stings more than having a pretty girl shoot you down.

After all, it takes a lot of effort to walk up to a girl you don’t know and start talking to her, right?

Well, here’s the good news – its COMPLETELY possible to avoid almost ALL rejection from women.

(And no, this has nothing to do with not talking to them to avoid rejection.  This is about meeting the girls you want, and getting them to respond positively to you!)

So let’s talk about how you can almost completely eliminate any and all rejection from women…

First of all, a disclaimer:  You can never 100% eliminate rejection.

There will always be girls out there who are mean, insensitive, and sadistic.  Maybe they’re having a bad day, or maybe they’re just not good people.  Either way, circumstances will cause them to reject you.

But guess what?  IT’S NO BIG DEAL!

Rejection happens.  You have to accept this if you ever want to have success in life.  The important thing is to not let it get to you.

See, rejection from girls STINGS because we unconsciously seek their approval.

We think to ourselves:  “If this hot girl is attracted to me, then I must be a person of value!”

Basically, we’re seeking to get an ego boost from the acceptance of pretty girls.

And when such a girl rejects us, in our mind, we’ve just gotten proof the opposite is true.  That we’re not desirable, or worth-while, or of value.

Because we were looking for the girl to give us some measure of self-esteem, and we were denied, we then beat ourselves up because we feel bad about ourselves.

That is how rejection works.

So what we want to do is MINIMIZE the chance of getting rejected as much as possible – not just to protect our self esteem, but to ensure the best possible chance of attracting the girl in question.

Here are a few strategies to do this…

1.  Be Truly Confident

The only way I know of to really take the sting out of rejection is to be truly confident.  This means believing in yourself and being secure about who you are, to the point where you don’t need validation from others to feel good about yourself.

A truly confident man likes who he is, faults and all, and doesn’t need others to feed his ego or bolster his self esteem.  He is the source of his own validation, and because of that, he can never really be rejected.

2.  Only Approach Girls Who Are Open To It

A big mistake guys make is approaching women who don’t want to be approached.

For whatever reason, they just don’t want to deal with being hit on.  Maybe they’re having a bad day, maybe they’re already in a relationship, maybe they’re feeling anti-social, or they’re sick, or whatever.

Either way – they don’t want to deal with guys trying to pick them up!

So if you DO approach them, they will try to shine you on and go about their day.  Some women will be nicer about it than others.  But the end result is the same – they will reject you.

In my course, The Art Of Approaching, I teach an extremely simple trick anyone can use to tell if a girl is open to being approached by you.  This is a technique I use all the time.

It helps you to zero in on girls who are less likely to reject you, so your interactions are almost always beneficial!

By eliminating the girls who aren’t open to being approached, you have a MUCH better chance of succeeding, and limit your exposure to rejection.

3.  Adjust Your Techniques To The Girl

If you’re able to get past the initial approach successfully, this is where most guys mess up.  They will try to pick up on a girl, without paying any attention to what she responds to.

Every woman is different, and responds to different things.  An approach that works well with one girl may not work well with another.

For example, some girls love it when you come up to them and are very direct with your interest.  You can say things like “You’re the most beautiful girl I’ve ever seen and I just wanted to meet you,” and they will love it!

But if you try that on another type of girl, they may think you’re “creepy” or “a liar” or “a player.”  You just never know until you begin talking to the girl what she responds to.

The biggest thing to remember when meeting a woman is to PAY ATTENTION.

Is she smiling at you?  Is she laughing at your jokes?  Does she look interested in what you’re talking about?

Too often, guys are just focused on what they are saying, and not on what the girl is reacting to.  And because of this, they keep heading down the wrong path until the girl removes herself from the conversation.

In my course, I try very hard to teach guys not only how to pay attention to the girl, but how to read her responses and adjust their strategy to ensure that she remains interested in you.  In fact, in the Advanced version of my course, I even talk about how to think strategically so you can tailor your approach to any girl in any situation.

And it’s really not that hard to do, once you know what to look for and put it into practice.

So if you want to learn these strategies to eliminate almost all rejection from women, go check out the Art Of Approaching course here:

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Once you get rid of rejection from women, meeting them becomes fun and exciting!  And dare I say… EASY!

So what are you waiting for?  Eliminate rejection from your life once and for all!

And as always, I love hearing from my readers.  So please, be sure to leave your questions and creative responses in the comment area below.