Decoding The Secret Language Of Women…

Have you ever noticed that women will often-times say one thing, but mean another?

I’m sure most of you guys have experienced this before.

For instance, sometimes a girl will say “I only like to date guys who are taller than me.”

And then, the next guy you see her out on a date with is about a foot shorter than she is.

Sometimes a woman will say she prefers to be taken out to dinner and a movie.

And then, she tells you the best date she ever had was when a guy took her on a walk on the beach.

Sometimes the woman says she’s looking for a guy with a nice, steady job who can provide for her.

And then, she’s seen galavanting around with some dirt-poor schmoe who doesn’t have a penny to his name.

No matter how you look at it, lots and lots of women say they respond to one thing, when in reality, they ACTUALLY respond to something else.

I call this strange phenomenon “Girl Speak.”

A big problem guys have is they don’t know how to properly translate “Girl Speak,” so they end up taking what the girl says literally.

But this is a huge, HUGE mistake!

Women very rarely say what they actually mean.  And because of that, they respond really well to guys who know how to interpret what they are really saying.

Take me for instance…

I’m a fat, bald, ugly shlub.  Definitely no winner in the looks department.

But I’ve dated women who say they aren’t into “fat” guys.  In fact, they actually prefer guys who “take care of themselves” and “go to the gym.”

Yet they still agree to date me!

I’ve dated girls who were way younger than me.  One of my more recent girlfriends was 20 years old.  I’m 30.  This girl wasn’t interested in dating an older guy, yet for me she made an exception.

I dated one girl who only liked black guys.  Me, I’m white as white can be.  Seriously.  They don’t get any whiter than good ol’ Joe.  But again, the girl made an exception.

If I had taken their “Girl Speak” literally, I’d have never gotten past the initial meet.

But I know the key to by-passing the most common “Girl Speak” objections.

You know the ones…

“I only like guys with great bodies.”
“A guy who wants to take me out needs to have a nice car.”
“I want a tall man.”
“I want a guy my own age.”
“I have a boyfriend.”
“I’m not looking for a serious relationship.”

Blah, blah, blah.

So how do I do it?  Well, its fairly simple actually…

Don’t try and change their minds… change their EMOTIONS.

When a girl tells you about a specific thing she finds attractive, you got to understand that’s not a LOGICAL attraction trigger she’s sharing with you.

No, sir.

When a girl tells you something like “I like to date tall guys,” she’s not telling you she’s attracted to guys who are tall.

She’s telling you she’s attracted to the way tall guys make her FEEL.

Normally, if you ask a girl why she likes tall guys, she will share with you that maybe she “feels safer” with tall men.

So in that case, she’s looking to feel secure with the guy she’s dating.

Guess what?  You don’t have to be tall to make a woman FEEL secure!  you just need to know how to trigger that emotion inside her.

So let’s say you want to get a woman attracted to you – no matter what you look like.

Do you know how to make a woman feel that kind of attraction?

The key is making her feel FUN when she’s around you.  If you can make a woman feel fun, chances are she’ll feel attracted.

Why?

Because attraction is all about feeling good!  And if you can create some good old fashioned sexual tension in there – guess what?

She’s going to be SEXUALLY attracted to you!

My new course, Pure Personality, is all about how to make a woman feel attracted to you – no matter how shy you are or what you look like.

If you’ve ever been frustrated by “Girl Speak,” you simply need to check it out…

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And if you want to learn how to create sexual tension with any girl, and never get rejected, you owe it to yourself to take a look at my book, The Art Of Approaching.

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Or, just continue to be fooled by “Girl Speak” and never get attraction from the women you want.

The choice is yours.

Talk soon,

Joseph Matthews