Renegade Rapport Giveaway #2!
Okay guys,
The release date of Renegade Rapport is now almost 1 week away! And we’re going to be offering yet ANOTHER free course to all of you out there who are dying to get your hands on these new techniques.
So here’s what you have to do…
Reply to this post, and tell me why you want to have your own Renegade Rapport course.
It can be any reason why, but obviously, I’m looking for someone who will use this course to gain real success with women - so now’s your opportunity to convince me that you’re the most deserving.
I’ll pick the response I like best and announce the winner on Tuesday January 30th.
January 24th, 2007 at 8:42 am
I think it would be killer of you if I received my own copy of Renegade Rapport. I have been studying psychology, and seduction for about 4 years. I think that I would be a perfect candidate for your course, because I would use it to its fill extent. I use to be such a chump when it came to women and well people and soft skills in general. But I think that your course would super charge my success. Kind of like nitrous
for my social life. Look forward to hearing from you.
-Jared Knowlton
January 24th, 2007 at 9:06 am
I’m sure a copy of this report would be the perfect gift for all the women in my life, present and future, including all the extra ones that I’d be able to make happy thanks to the teaching. And these lovely ladies will otherwise miss out, as I don’t think I can afford the purchase just now (I’m not in the rich USA). So Joseph, I know you like to make women feel good — do this for them
January 24th, 2007 at 9:42 am
The reason I am interested in having Renegade Rapport is because gaining rapport with anyone, let alone women, is difficult for me. I know its not supposed to be a strict layout, but its a guideline for me to follow which would help me learn much faster, and in the process get me more women faster. I just joined a fraternity, and I am literally surrounded by beautiful women, but if I do not understand how to gain rapport with any of these women, the only reason I’ll get laid is because “she’s so horny she’s willing to overlook my personality.” And if you have any experience with sorority girls, you know that any experience like that means you usually won’t get anything from any other girl in that sorority, which would make me miss out on a whole lot more.
January 24th, 2007 at 10:00 am
I’d love to have the Renegade Rapport largely due to one major point you said in your “Q&A” email: that you can use it anywhere, anytime. I have a busy life and as you said in another answer, I am not really into memorizing pages of lines, techniques and get dressed in weird or unusual ways and that seems a little too much work for something inherently unrelated to getting good with women (After all, women appreciate genuineness and not fakeness.). So, I’d be thrilled to get this. Also, there is a very crucial point that I have found in your teaching (mini course and AOA, and esp. the Self-Mastery method). It’s so hard to describe but here’s my try: Your system is inherently good and has a very deep and profound goodwill and positive energy in it. My personal opinion is that it is supported by thoughts and wise ideas that I believe are inherently ideal. I did not find this (!!) in other teachings. I immensely realized and experienced this when I read the Renegade Rapport Self-Mastery method ebook. I read pages 1,2,3 and then more slowly 4,5,6 (because I became thoughtful) and then I came to page 7, and when I read the last paragraph, I was like wow! A big wow! I had to stop there. The big wow became a very big wow. I felt it almost like it entered into my blood and spread around my body. The thing you said there along with all the supporting ideas laid out previously was so profound, it was so deep and you conveyed it so well that I was amazed. That just had connected with some of my very strong rooted and supported ideas & principles in my belief system that I learned through other mechanisms, sources, and experience in life. That generated other thoughts and connected with others. I found support from different perspectives and they all came together. It was so beautiful. I do not see this kind of thing every day. In fact, it is so rare. Actually, I am not sure whether I experienced it this intense ever! I was flooded with positive emotion. Tears would come from my eyes. I was so happy. No, actually I wasn’t happy. I was more than happy. I was ecstatic. I had like an extreme positive potential and energy inside me. It was some sort of joy and pleasure. I felt pressure in various parts of my body. I thought if I could release that energy somehow to outside from my body, my room would be heavily covered with ecstacy.
And this is a very crucial reason why I would want to have the Renegade Rapport. I think you got down very important underlying principles and the Renegade Rapport and your other teachings go along with it. They are so consistent with them and supported by them. Going back to the first major point, which is that I can use this almost everywhere and anytime, I think THAT makes it so powerful. I would use it every day. I would use it whenever I want (which I expect to be pretty frequent). I may actually find myself wanting to use more than I have time. I may actually need to stop myself from doing it so that I keep other things get done. To me, THAT is how one should learn. And, I am a big thinker & applier of teaching. Finally, there is one more major point I have to mention. That is, these skills are not only for being or becoming good with women. It shows in other areas of life. I could do some other things better due to learning & applying these. It all spreads out. And, I think it is because that it goes along with and is supported by those underlying profound principles. That adds even more to my motivation. That multiplies the effect of this many times. I realize that I could write all day long but time is limited (both for me to write and for you to read). So, I think this is sufficient and therefore I will stop here. Best wishes…
January 24th, 2007 at 10:06 am
I live in southern California. I go to one of the most beautiful schools in the nation with the most beautiful girls around. I can talk to average girls, but the really amazing ones always ruin it for me. I don’t want to have wasted this part of my life letting these 10s slip through my fingers.
January 24th, 2007 at 11:14 am
Hej Joseph,
The Reason I would like the Renagade Repport?
Well.. Back when i stumbled apon David Deangelos material, I really thought it was the right way to go since i could relate to hes stuff, both in my own life, and in meeting women. But it didn’t really work out as well as expected. I remember him talking a little about repport, but David never went that deep in the subject. Then one month i received an interview cd with you on it. The way you simpleized everything blew my mind. I have read a ton of books on how to be a so called alfa-male, NLP, Speed Seduction, Mystory methods. But not one of them come anywhere near as eazy to read. Or get explained in such a way that everyone can understand it, then in your Book. Not to put any of the “gurus” down, but they just didnt work for me. So i signed up for your Newsletters, and opened up the sneek preview of Renegade Repport. Man, you were so spot on. It was like you knew just what i was thinking. I tryed out your mini E-Course for 2 weeks mow. And it worked! Way more then i had expected it to. I didn’t have to think of something cool, or funny to open up the conversation with. And now I never have to think about what to say, Cheers mate! Your material, plus some of the non-BS that i have read, realy put my life in perspective. The Renegade Repport, would really put me in the place I have always dreamed of being.
Thanks,
Sam (Denmark)
January 24th, 2007 at 12:09 pm
I want to get a copy of Renegade Rapport because I am curious as to what could be in this course, that hasn’t been in some other course already. Is there anything new that we can learn that will be easy to use? Well I hope so because I feel that I still have so much to learn even after going through so many different courses.
I have read and watched many different peoples ideas, but none of it has been as clear or made more sense than AOA.
I seriously hope the Renegade Rapport can deliver the kind of information that is missing from every other program, and make it easier for all of us to approach and attract the type of women that we want, whenever we want. Is that too much to ask for?
January 24th, 2007 at 12:35 pm
I want the Renegade Rapport course to learn how to connect with women better. I’m not too bad at having conversations with women, flirting with them, but I want to get past the level of conversation that where it is just flirting. It’s hard for me to have a meaningful conversation with a woman I don’t know very well, and this course looks like the perfect thing to get past this problem.
I talk to women all the time, get them to laugh, smile, etc. That part isn’t a problem. What I really want to learn is how to captivate women, how to connect with them at a level most guys reach only a few times in their lives. I am all about treating women with respect, they are people too. It’s just hard for me to go from flirting around to deep conversations while at the same time knowing that she wants to do this and feels connected to me.
Rapport is one of the most important concepts in dealing with women, and most of the systems I have seen only touch on this. Juggler probably comes the closest in teaching you how to have conversations, but he does not teach about how to make meaningful connections. I want more than just sex from my women, and creating rapport encompasses everything from trust to comfort. I am also really curious to see how to find out if a woman is in rapport with you. This can save a lot of time if you know things aren’t going well, or you can work to improve the experience. This would be a huge advantage.
I see no point in having one night stands. If I am going to be with a woman, I prefer to have a meaningful relationship with her, someone who can say she is better for having met me. This cannot happen without the connection that comes with rapport. Your course encompasses all of the elements found in other seduction systems, and more.
I also feel that this system could help me deal better with all people, not just women. Make friends more easily, get a job, whatever. All people want to know that you respect what they think, and many of the concepts found in the seduction community can be applied to other areas of your life.
Your work is awesome.
Thanks,
Shawn
January 24th, 2007 at 1:50 pm
You know I cannot lie to you as I stated in my last post. Why do I think that I deserve Renegade Rapport? Well you stated that it will help you not only with women, but in all friendships and all people. That couldn’t be better words for me to hear really. I do not have really any friends, I am always questioning the friendships I think I have cause I can’t even get people I want to be friends with to hang out with me. My social life in general is absolutely horrible. The only way I can get social with people is if they come up to me. I am an open minded kind of guy, but yet I find it hard to socialize with anyone else but people I want to be friends with that really want nothing to do with me.
Then of course the women… Ok.. Today, I was volunteering at my Special Olympics for school and I was surprised at all of the very hot women also volunteering. I mean I tried to make eye contact like you have always advised the newsletter folks, but that’s all I could do. Maybe an “excuse me..”, but otherwise NOTHING! Sometimes I noticed them give eye contact, but I didn’t notice a smile, and I had no idea what to do, or what to say and how to say it. Yes, Art of Approaching would be great for me, but I have noticed that even in my social life, when I do say something to anyone, not just women, then I either regret what I say or I get ignored. I am involved in theater and I can talk to a whole audience of people, but yet talking to one girl or getting one girl to talk to me or me to talk to them, is near impossible.
Nothing in the world pisses me off more is when guys my age are not only the life of the party, but also amazing talkers with women. One of them who I wish I could consider my friend, I have always asked what to do. And he always gives bad advice, but then today he gets approached by those girls I wanted to talk with and he gets there numbers.. ALL 3 of them.. He is amazing with women, and socially he is very approachable and social, yet I am like a car that has been broken down and won’t start in a ditch in front of a dead end. I was reading that e-chapter recently on Renegade Rapport and what you teach and the mirror matching trick, for the 1st time I have confidence that if I can have this then maybe I can gain a confidence in need of a charge and take me out of that hole and turn me around into the kind of man I have always wanted to be. I mean everything you have said so far about Renegade Rapport seems so simple and so easily applicable, that I feel that I could get so much out of this.
Maybe others are in my position, but I can only hope that you have confidence in me that if I can have your e-book then I can gain help and confidence not only with women, but in my social life in general which has been the cause of my low self esteem and very low confidence that maybe with your help can be erased into a man who is confident, the life of the party, and very social and best of all LIKE ABLE!
Thank you!
Andrew
January 24th, 2007 at 2:12 pm
Joseph,
I’m totally on board with rapport being the foundation of sexual interaction beyond the attraction phase. Why am I interested? I am 47yrs old and in the middle of a divorce.
I know how I got to where I am now; NOT maintaining rapport and attraction. I kid you not. People who think it’s expensive to learn social dynamics that work should compare it with the cost of what I am currently going through. When this is over I will hold the record among my friends for “paying a woman” for something that I now have little to show for.
Normal “club type” approaches are mostly useless to me as I am not in the age range that spends my social hours in clubs. “Night game”, while interesting to study, is not nearly as important as creating instant rapport with the women I meet during the day or in the early evening. I got so much more useful information from your “Art of Approaching” - and real success - than previous material I have used. I am a walking testimonial of your techniques to overcoming approach anxiety and initiate contact with countless women after I used some of your earlier material.
I look forward to learning about rapport from you. As you might imagine, I am far more cash strapped than I want to be and WILL be so for at least a few months. That may mean that I will miss out the first batch of this course until a later oppertunity presents itself. If I miss this, then I hope for another batch when my financial situation is more sound.
I’m not going to give up on women just because I’ve been burned. I enjoy them far too much.
Those of us who truly love women will continue to learn and improve and leave them better for experiencing us, regardless of the outcome.
Love your work,
Michael
January 24th, 2007 at 2:49 pm
I think I could use Renegade Rapport a great deal. The main reason being that I detest using memorized lines or patterns on girls. To me its just time consuming and feels just plain weird. I don’t intend using what I would learn just on girl, oh no. Since I am a student and I wish to do internships every summer, they all involve some type of interview. I want to be able to build rapport with the interviewer so I can have a better shot at being accepted for the internship.
And for using what I could learn on girls, I have ONE MAIN sticking point on creating rapport: Rapport should come naturally; sometimes I will involuntarily THINK about creating rapport and I will accidentally try to FORCE it, and I end up not being able to escalate the rapport any further, if at all. It just ends up FEELING unnaural, so the interactions becomes unnatural. Being a student, I dont have a lot of cash to spare, so I’m probably gonna have to save up some money for a long time to buy the program. But I’m sure its gonna be worth it!
January 24th, 2007 at 2:52 pm
You gotta help a brother out……..I am twice divorced. I use to approach women with no problem however I usualy atracted the wrong ones. After 10 years I am back on the market and about 25 pounds heavier. my confidence is shot. I can start a conversation but it goes no where. I have been reading your emails and this is exactly what I need. My budget is such that it will take several months to purchase this program and get started. I need to get started NOW. It has been almost 2 years since my wife left and that same two years since I have been laid. Part of that is for a while I didn’t care but I DO NOW. I want to feel comfortable approaching women again and I certianly don’t want to huge fear of rejection that is now a paralizing factor. A great example is a recnt cutie I met at a business function. I couldn’t close the deal at the function with her boss trying to get her back to work and out of the function, so I went by the following Monday to her office on the plan of a business visit and a little more. I got cut off by the boss again so I used the phone. After a conversation I went from business to personal and she just shut down. I know I did it all wrong and want to learn the correct way of doing it this day and age. Please Joeseph refurbish this old fat mans love life. You may be the only hope left.
January 24th, 2007 at 3:10 pm
Hey,
You are great !
You really have great stuff up !
Well, I should really be helped because im really desperate, ive never had a girlfriend what-so-ever .. and never been into sexual relationship before , i always get rejected
im not ugly or anything, im just average like other people ..
I really am up for trying new things and Ive been reading about seduction since 1 Year and nothing is that useful, but your new project seems really interesting and helpful ..
I dont really know what to talk about after approaching a women, and i dont even know that how to keep rapport going on through out the scene ..
Please Joseph, Help me ..
I Know you will ..
flirt_606
January 24th, 2007 at 3:55 pm
Hi Thundercat,
Over the past several months, I’ve been actively going out into the field using what I’ve attained from places all over the internet. Basically I wanted to know the techniques, and I learned them, and used them to some great effect I might add, and have been getting results. But then I realized something. The techniques don’t always work! In fact, after getting comfortable with opening, DHVing, and figuring out the whole cocky funny thing, I realized that this stuff was working not because of the techniques, but because I was actually internalizing a different state altogether. When I read your Self Mastery document, it made complete sense to me. In order to build a healthy sexual relationship with a woman, you must have a healthy relationship with yourself, and then you can bring your feelings to whoever your with. I’ve realized that when you’re so completely comfortable with yourself, it will naturally set a woman at ease, and make her want to open up to you.
After reading your last document, the quote from the Art of War stuck out to me like a sore thumb. That gut level reaction that happens when a concept really strikes a chord in one’s beliefs got me with that quote.
“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the
result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy,
for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know
neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”
- Sun Tzu
Brilliant.
I’ve been with two women in my life, and we knew and understood each other so well, that sex just felt like a natural process. I’ve never experienced LMR because of the incredible rapport we shared before hand. I seek that now with the interactions that I have daily. What’s more important for me however, is to find out whether the person I’m talking to, is someone I really want to get to know, someone that is a good addition to my life, and there is no faster way of figuring that out than understanding how alike you both are to one another. One of the things you said, part of report is becoming like one another, including biorhythm. I got that word from one of my girls and it makes much more sense now! Your course may take me some time to learn, but I believe I have strong potential to gain real success with women. Nothing worthwhile in my life has ever come without some quality time invested, whether it be my music, or women.
Anyway, those two women are still my best friends because the relationship was great from the get go, and not about feeding carnal needs and one nightstands. I’m really seeking more knowledge in this area of social interactions because I’m beginning to understand (especially after reading your material), that once you have Self Mastery, getting to know other people can be a wonderful joyride for both.
Side note: I’m turning 24 on February 24th. This would make a great birthday present
January 24th, 2007 at 3:58 pm
I would like to win the Renegade Rapport course because I believe it will help me in relating to women and to people in general, whether in my business or personal life. I moved to a new city year ago, and I’m finding it much more difficult to meet people than I thought I would. I just assumed I’d fall in with a new group, but I now realize, one year in, that I’m going to have to make an effort to “get out there.” And that is going to require a big improvement in my interpersonal skills, and my ability to relate to people.
Of course, the main motivation for me is the ladies. I’ve dated a few women in the past year, all of whom I would have liked to have sex with, but was unable to !close any of them. That’s extremely frustrating. You make contact, get the date, then have it fizzle out after one or two meetings because of a lack of knowledge or skill to “take it to the next level.” I think your course is ideally suited for that purpose.
Slim Shady
Ontario, Canada
January 24th, 2007 at 4:16 pm
Why do I want to have my own Renegade Rapport course? A tough question, best answered by the story of a quick encounter I had a short time ago:
I was sitting across from a beautiful, charming girl in a coffee shop. No pressure, no fear, just chatting it up after class. She was telling me about a speech she presented on pick-up lines, and she told me some stories about the funniest ones that she’s heard. I said to her with a smirk, “You know, I think the best pick-up line is “I’m taken”…everybody likes a challenge”. For just a second, her eyes glazed over, her pupils widened, and her lower lip hung in an “O” shape as she thought this over, before her ever-present cheerful smile took over her face again.
Joseph, Thundercat, whichever you prefer to go by- I believe that this is what your course teaches. I’ve had enough of scripts, lines, and second guesses running through my head, and although they have pushed me forward in the past, they are now holding me back. What I just descriped was rapport in a nutshell- this one experience let me know that anything was possible without somebody else’s stories and tricks. I enjoyed this much more than the look of amazement when I use “the cube”, because it’s just ME! Unfortunately, the ability to be so deeply in sync with people eludes me in many situations where it really counts, and I would love to see what you have put together with this course.
Best of luck with the judging!
-SeveN
January 24th, 2007 at 4:20 pm
Hey Joseph,
I don’t want to sound like a total loser, but as much as I’ve read PUA, and emersed myself in it, I still walk away with a feeling that it all comes down to- “feel the fear and do it anyway”, and with enough experience (repetition/practice) comes expertise.
This is nothing that most of us guys don’t already know.
If only I could get past the intial freeze factor that turns my entire body and mind to mush, when I’m in the presence of a woman I want to be with.
If only…
-D.
January 24th, 2007 at 5:07 pm
Hi Joseph,
I don’t want this to sound like a “pick me pick me!” spiel, but that’s honestly what it is. However, I’d also like to share a bit of my story and introduce myself on these forums.
I have your ebook, Art of Approaching. In fact, I have purchased several pieces of literature related to the game, such as Niel Strauss’ awesome book, Tony Click’s Layguide, Stripper Secret, and Venusian Arts Handbook, etc. Normally, I’d just wait for you to release your ebook and buy it, but right now I’m not in the financial position to do so. I am departing for Africa later this year with the Peace Corps, and would like to spend the 6 months before that devoting myself solely on improving my game. I believe your Renegade Rapport course would be the final wrap up needed to culminate all my skills together and top it off with the most important part of the game – rapport. I wanted to attend a seminar much earlier, but I have not had the finances to pay for it.
I’ve had some success with girls, but it was a painful process that took years from trial and error and changing various parts of my appearance, personality, and even values. In summary, I used to be the innocent, geeky, sweet, short, skinny Indian guy – computer engineering major (friends with some hot girls, but rarely anything more). After a transformation that involved changing majors (to a major that was 80 % women), getting contacts, piercing my ear, growing facial hair, and even altering my personality a little, I ended up becoming very popular within my social scene. I had created a great social network and used it to my advantage to meet girls, build comfort, and have sex with a few of them. (One girl who used to hate me during my sophomore year, who spread rumors and gossip calling me a sketchy nerd ended up trying to seduce me 2 years later.) It was a great feeling and sense of triumph, but it disappeared when I left college and entered the real world.
It has been difficult to forge new friendships and relationships in the real world. College was a terrific environment for socializing and building a network, and there was always ways to meet girls. The lack of similar social outlets in the real world made me turn to the game, and clubs/bars became great places to practice without the social consequences of messing up.
So, in the past few months, I’ve been honing my skills, experimenting with various openers and discussing it with my fellow AFCs. My friend who is 25, was a virgin 2 weeks ago and had never been kissed! One night out with me at a local club inspired him to make moves on a girl at work. As of last week, he is no longer a virgin. The power of the game has been tremendous for all of us.
It is powerful to be able to randomly approach women and instantly immerse yourself into a set. It is an amazing feeling to command the attention of women that you initially thought were out of your league because you’re a short skinny brown dude and they’re white chicks. Women that are dressed in the finest clothing, that are taller than you even without heals, women that could be models or beauty contest finalists – with the game they all became options.
I no longer feel approach anxiety, and I’m getting the A phase down pretty well. One of my first nights I went out, I was very friendly and able to get 4 numbers. But it never amounted to very much because of the lack of connection. Sometimes I don’t even bother calling numbers because I know there is no reason to since not enough rapport was established. I feel like I’ve lost view of the importance of rapport in my daily post-college life. I think I’m at the point in my game where I need to learn the next step.
In my previous relationships with girls, the rapport would happen naturally because we knew each other for some considerable amount of time, and we had similar interests. It would often be the case that the girl would want to have sex before I even thought about it. In the game, it is difficult to hit on shared interests so quickly in the span of 5 minutes when you are approaching a group. Often you will find that the only reason you want to continue talking to a girl is because you want to have sex with her (nothing wrong with that). So, there is only the illusion of a connection.
I don’t like feeling that superficial. I want my rapport to be genuine. I want us to both be able to emotionally connect, not just her thinking we are connecting, while the only thing going on in my head is “let’s get through this shit fast cuz I just wanna bang already!” Whenever I felt like that towards a girl, after sex I would no longer want anything to do her. I was in this situation with a girlfriend…and it’s a horrible feeling to have…and much worse to her is she knows you feel that way.
I would love to be able to start building genuine rapport. There’s this girl in my LSAT class that I find somewhat cute and interesting. I’ve been using some DHV tactics, making some wisecracks comments, talking to everyone in the class a lot, and she even asked to borrow my book recently (I know, this sounds lame). But I’m still confused as to the sure way to get her…and the only thing that comes to mind is rapport (don’t worry, she isn’t a one-itis, there is another cute girl in the class). Rapport can happen naturally, but that usually takes a lot of time. I want to learn your awesome techniques to expedite the process and be able to connect with girls once again. Attraction with some genuine connection seems like the winning formula with girls. But, it’s hard without a social scene in the real world. And someone like me who has been shifting from job to job, mostly working as a traveling consultant…it’s even harder. Please consider me for Renegade Rapport.
Thanks.
January 24th, 2007 at 5:41 pm
I’m not interested in sex-only; sex, for me, is an emotional-sexual-energetic intermingling that lasts beyond the sex-act. I want to feel like I want to stay with the woman after we’re done and that she wants to stay with me. In other words, I want the rapport to continue at more levels than sexual. That means that the rapport, at the start must be authentic, magnetic, close and deep. So, I’m very interested to hear what you have to share about building rapport. I’m ready for the real thing.
January 24th, 2007 at 9:59 pm
Hey Joseph,
A little more than 2 years ago, I hit the lowest point in my life, which with time I have come to deeply appreciate reaching, as I explain below.
Around this time, I was in a public gathering and I noticed a very fine woman (HB9) was constantly staring at me. Since I had self-esteem issues, I could not believe she was looking at me, so I looked around to see who she could be looking at. There was no one around that was even close to my age range, so I was convinced she was staring at me. Still, I was in disbelief and even felt uncomfortable, since this never happened to me before.
Even with this opportunity before me, I had no idea how to approach her, especially since I had no experience in dating whatsoever. I felt so bad that simply walked away from the place.
Eventually, I met her later on and tried to to get to know her, but the attraction she initially had was quickly lost, since I had no confidence nor real social skills.
At this time, I realized something was wrong with me, so I quickly bought your Art Of Approaching e-book, as well as a host of many other dating materials. Slowly but surely, I started applying what I read and changed my personality to become the man I should’ve naturally developed into.
I would never have been on the path to success on this area of my life had it not been for that low point. I guess sometimes you need to hit rock bottom in order to go up. Just like a seed must be buried first in order for a tree to grow. Thinking about it, the only worse thing there is than having NO success is having SOME success. If you have some success, you’ll think this is a “numbers game” and will not be motivated to study to become more successful.
Even though I have vastly improved, not just with women but with my life in general, I still do not get very far with women because I can’t make connections with them. It is the same reason why making new friends is also difficult for me.
I can pretty much say that all other areas of my life that have to do with dating (especially “inner game”) are at a very good state, but “rapport”, “small-talk”, etc. is still an area which I have problems with. I feel like a 400+ horsepower car with high-performance tires, but with the emergency brake on. Even though it’s track-ready, no matter how much the accelerator is pressed, it won’t move much, if at all.
I seriously hope your book, Renegade Rapport, will help me create connections with people, especially women, and metaphorically serve me as what releases the emergency brake, so I can go full-throttle in this area of my life called “women and dating”.
Thanks.
January 25th, 2007 at 2:36 am
I have seen things that are no longer possible to see on this planet. I have seen the migration of Wildebeest by the thousands on the African plains. Not in parks but in wild territory where little human habitation had ever occurred since time began. I have done things that few men have done. I have climbed places where no other human had ever before been in living memory. And I have faced dangers that I lived through by sheer luck or divine intervention. I once faced a crowd of thousands with only other five guys next to me. And we in that very thin line, held our line and that crowd of thousands didn\’t attack us because their leaders knew that though we would be hacked to piecies, we would take them with us. I have travelled to many countries and learnt martial arts skills from some of the best practitioners in the world of Shotokan karate and now a little known martial art used by the special forces in Russia. I have met with billionaires and bushmen and befriended both and been phased by neither too much. I have had relationships with some amazing women, but what I have not done yet Joe, is find, bed, enjoy and eventually remain in a solid relationship with that class 11 amazing woman. I have already a certain measure of fame and this will only improve with time. If your method really works, I will publicly (with your permission) admit to my using it and benefiting from it. I don\’t know if I am the most deserving for you, as I am not sure I know your criteria, but I know I am the most deserving for your course purely because of how I will use it. Which is: To increase the greater good for all concerned. G.
January 25th, 2007 at 5:24 am
I would love to get a free copy of Renegade Rapport because I am a young man of 53, and I’m tired of being lonely and having trouble keeping a job. Since my divorce I’ve found that things have changed radically in the singles scene and things not what they once were. I feel out of touch with society and the people around me, maybe because of trust issues. But the information contained here could very well save my sanity and make it possible for me to once again be happy in life. I know the information here can also make a difference in other parts of my life, so maybe I can get and keep a decent job as well. Thanks very much for your advice.
Bruce
January 25th, 2007 at 7:48 am
Hello there,
Before all of this, I was literary just a face in the crowd if even that, I used to sit in the corner, and in the back (Assuming someone will talk to me) in the classrooms. I have moved constantly all my life, so Part of me gave up communicating with people. My senior year in high school I received my first kiss, and my first girlfriend, that ended in a year and some month, not a big deal I know. I remember back in my freshman Year, this one kid made fun of me, and I just sat there and took it, I had a random person stand up for me, and I became friends with them. Any who.
Let’s fast-forward the last 6 months. In the last 6 months, a friend of mine came back in town and introduced me to the community; I entered the style life challenge and met lots of new people. I was hooked. I could always open strangers and talk to them no problem! My first sarge was using a bra to start a conversation. I one of my best friends due to this outrageous behavior and that’s my own entire fault.
So anyways, after about a month my opening game got good, but now I can’t hit A2. I’ve been practicing it for 5 months, I CANT ATTRACT A SINGLE GIRL! I even reduced myself with hook ups with friends UG 4 and my Ex a HB5 Twice. My brother is my best friend, we do everything together, even when I go out, his there. I’m sitting their, while DHV’ing, playing some games, while his sitting there chilling, than in about 5 min, the girl would be all over him! Even at that, the girls are running the whole “your my older brother, or your my pimp or I’m your prophet” kind of thing, which by all standpoint is landing me in the friend zone! I feel as though I will never find person to care for me on an emotional level now. Especially that I might even be moving to Boston. These skills are essential for me to be able to find ANY sort of friend! You know how terrible it is? This will be my first time away from home! I’m 21. And well, I can’t leave the house past 10 pm. So because of that, I haven’t even been to a club yet. As a person I have gained confidence to talk to people. Oh and by the end of school last semester, I tried my first number close and god that was a disaster! Last day of school, And I only had about 3min of Rapport with this girl. And tried to have a fun conversation, So you can imagine me after about 5 seconds of silence (which FEEL FUCKING FOREVER) she says “I got to get to class” and this was my last seeing her so I said fuck it and well I said “It’s been a good convo but I gots to go too, let me get your number so we can continue this later” to what she responded with a “ill just see you on Wed”.
Anyways, I need to get my social skills up from 12 year olds to what I need now, especially when I get out to the real world.
If I do get a chance to try this program first hand, and learn things the way they should be, it will make me feel comfortable and be able to move on and improve in other aspects of my life!
Thank you for taking time to read this, I know my chance of winning is next to none. O wells, worth a shot right? Heh… Good luck to everyone
-Love Prince
January 25th, 2007 at 9:21 am
Dear mr Matthews
First of all i want to put my heart on the table, This are kinda my confessions NO lies NO bluff NO fantasy storys this is the full thruth.
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My youth kinda sucked I got teased, my sister had a brian tumor (cancer in the head, thank god she still lives, she has a boy-friend now and is going to live with him in a special home for people with brain damage) and my parents nearly divorced. That’s my past….. My social life is not so fabulous. I only got 1 friend that’s always busy.
My love life is death well to be honest it never lived I never even kissed a girl, becouse of this I was in a point with my life that I even thought I was gay .
Everyday when i come home from school i make and learn my homework, play some videogames and watch some TV. This my sound pretty normal but to do this every day in my life so far is scary. I never go out with my friend and if i ask some other guys i know to go out to do something fun they always seem to be busy.
A long time I was depressed becouse of this all this misery in my life. But then ive made a choise or im going to be depressed for ever and die alone or im going to life my live. So i searched on the internet and ive found your newsletter and that tbh actualy helped me building a little confidence (thank you for that). But my social life is still rubbish.
Do you know this song? It’s called dying to live from outkast 1 piece of the lyrics goes like this “i’m dying to love, i’m dying play, i’m dying to get out of here i’m dying of to life
This are the feelings im trying to tell all of you, I want to have a live. I want to go out with friend and have fun, i want to date hot girls. I want the life i dream off. I just want to be like every other guy but not as a AFC but as a guy that is good with girls.
When i read those free chapters of Renegade Rapport i really liked becouse im not the kind of guy that likes to wear all those kind of wearth clothes or use wearth lines (dohnt have the confidence yet for it tbh…) and stuff however they work.
The Renegade Rapport sounds like a change in the PUA community and hopefully a change in my life if i have enough luck to get picked out.
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I have read the other posts that have been send in already and if i dohnt win the competition i will know that atleast somewhone else with the same problems as I will have a happyer life and I wish him all the luck with accomplishing there dreams.
This is the first time that i ever posted my whole life story on a forum well to be honest that i ever tell it to somewhone. It kinda heavy to bring up all those emotions again.
Anyway i really hope im lucky enough to win this contest and thanks for your time reading this. I hope you will be the one that gives me the fuel for my broken down car
- greetings Thomas B. / prepared improvise
P.S. Sorry for all this emotional stuff, spelling mistakes and the bad ending of my story
January 25th, 2007 at 10:50 am
Hi Joseph,
i would love to check your course out cause Rapport is such an important thing not just for dating but for life in general.
If it s good I will post a positive review in every german and italian board.
Who else can offer you that kind of advertisment?
Marco
P.S. I wont post e negative review if it s below par
January 25th, 2007 at 10:05 pm
This one time I was just walking around, and these outlaws started to chase me. So I jumped on a horse and ran while they shot at me. Eventually I ducked into a cave to get away. While in the cave some pirates came and found me, I guess it was their cave because they were pissed. They tied me up and made me walk the plank, and I don’t know if you know this, but it is hard to swim when you’re tied up. Luckily a mermaid came and rescued me, but then she told me I had to marry her. I told the mermaid that I would come back on Wednesday, which of course was a lie because I don’t want to marry a mermaid. As I was walking away I fell into some quick sand. Fortunately a tribe of natives came along and pulled me out. As it turns out these natives happened to be cannibals, and started to prepare a fire to roast me. Before they could put me on the fire, Bigfoot came and scared them away. In case you didn’t know, Bigfoot is naturally blurry. Unfortunatly Bigfoot had his own plans to eat me, but just before he could some aliens crashed nearby distracting Bigfoot long enough for me to get away. I ran to the nearest city only to find out that I didn’t have enough money to get home. I ended up joining a gang of thieves in order to get the money to get back home, but then the Mob found out about the gang and did not approve. I told them they could probably find some treasure in that pirate cave I was in earlier, and they let me go, but as soon as I got away, I was stopped by the feds because of my dealings with the Mob. They decided to let me off with a warning and took me home. Boy were my parents pissed when I come home with the feds. I was grounded for a week, but it’s cool since I never really do anything that exciting anyways.
this comment is meant to be a break from many of the sad stories others have posted. when i look at my life, it’s not bad at all, i’m young, i’m healthy, i’m fairly good looking, i’m in great shape, and i’m in college on my way to a great career. my life in terms of women?…well…i’m working on it. i know what i want, and i’m doing what i can to get it. renegade rapport may or may not help, i don’t know i’m not a psychic, but odds are good that i won’t wanna pay $250 for it when it comes out, so i figure i’ll try for a free one. something my highschool football coaches used to say was you miss 100% of the passes you don’t try for, so i figure i’ll at least try for a free course, but assuming some of the stories others have posted are true, there are people much more deserving of it than me, but again, i would have no chance if i didn’t try at all
January 26th, 2007 at 8:44 am
JM, Im a nerd. I used to weigh 260 but I worked my ass off for 5 years n goin strong. I (live read: work and workout and sometimes sleep) in a dead-end job. Workout everyday between 6-8:30 AM to keep myself fit. 8:30 - 2:30 AM I work at a dead-end job. Im 26, flirt often (now that I look much better than I did till I was 20) have seen a girl. She was a nerd. Didnt work out. Oh well, no biggie. I believe in working hard for everything, and if I could afford to buy the course — or attend a seminar, I would. I buy second hand books about being a PUA. Would appreciate it if you\’d give me the course — would definitely help me generally in life — being a more charming and attractive person — generally, and ofcourse, most importantly to women. I live in Pakistan, so its already a repressed community. Dont have any long-winded stories, just thought I\’d drop in an email to be considered. Thanks.
January 26th, 2007 at 9:53 am
Why me? Hm…well, for one, I am a foreigner
I am half Italian, half german (heavy on the German side optically) that lives in the capital of the singles comunity, Berlin, Germany.
Second, it has only been about a year since I started applying some of the community’s techniques. What I am starting to realize, is that though routines and stuff might get you going, the real progress is in addressing you inner Game…I am trying to work on that, but it is a bunch of work, that’s for sure.
So, I hope your material will help me get over a few humps. I find it rather interesting that there is so little native-language stuff being offered her in Europe…what a market that is being lost…
Thx in advance,
Giovanni, Berlin
January 26th, 2007 at 11:09 am
I would like to get a copy of Renegade Rapport for several reasons. First being that I have no problem meeting women and occasionally pulling a one night stand but when it comes to LTR I have a real problem making good connections with women. The second reason is I was in a relationship for about 6 months that ended recently and was thinking Reneade Rapport would be a great way to get back into things.
Thanks for all the time you put into this.
January 26th, 2007 at 1:36 pm
The reason I want Renegade Rapport is for only two simple reasons. First I want to be a part of a relationship I’ve always thought I deserved to have, but never got. Sure, I’ve gotten laid here and there and have had girlfriends as well. But it was just luck or the all dominating hand of so called “fate.” Because of this, I’ve never been happy enough to be the man a woman endlessly looks for because I’ve never “chose” those moments. I want to make my life because “I” want to and not because of society and definitely not fate as I’ve never believed in it in the first place.
Second, when a man finally gets the girl, then his eyes open to the world and understands it’s not just the girl he can or has gotten according to his own will, but that life itself can be done “the same way” because of one thing: pure knowledge. With this EVERYTHING is possible and the sky is the absolute limit. I can’t tell you how wide open and bloodshot my eyes are at finally having them see what I’ve always been missing, thanks to The Art Of Approaching!
And to comment, if people knew exactly what to do to not only get the one they want but to keep them happy as well as yourself, this world would have none of the percentage rate of crime, murder, rape, and hatred that it has today. It is amazing how many of these concerns are caused because of loneliness and the need for that special someone you can never get.
Joe
January 26th, 2007 at 1:49 pm
Hey Joe,
I really need your Renegade Rapport program and fast. I am 32 years old and never really had a girlfriend in my life. My longest relationship has lasted about 2 months and that was about 8 months ago. The only reason her and I met was because we were set up by mutual friends. Other than that most of the girls I’ve been with have been one night stands because we were drunk. I was a lot like you growing up and was always really shy around women. I am getting better but still have an anxiety about approaching women I don’t know and rarely ever do mostly because I don’t know how to keep conversations going. With the help of your AofA multimedia products I feel I am getting to the point where I will be able to soon. However, after reading about the concept of building rapport, I know that your program will take me to the next level and help find the woman I am ultimately looking for and keep her. I’ve been working on my inner game issues for a while now and I can already tell they’ve made a big impact on my life. I feel if I can get this area (women and dating) of my life handled it will have a great impact on other areas as well. I plan on doing whatever it takes to get this done.
Thanks Bro,
Rodney
January 26th, 2007 at 7:04 pm
Hiya,
Thanks for the chance to beg
I really need this material because it directly addresses my sticking point at the moment. You see I’m 52 but look 39 or 40. I’m in grad school and met a LOT of girls in their 20’s. I can easily generate tons of attraction just because I’m different from the other dork guys and have my act together, plus I’ve learned about attraction here and it works! But eventually they find out my real age and while still attracted, I have to do a TON of work to get them comfortable with me. For me it’s ALL about trust and rapport. Without strong trust and rapport, they eventually start feeling creepy about the age thing. When I can get that beat, they are so happy they actually thank ME.
Help me make more grad school girls happy! Thanks!
January 27th, 2007 at 12:00 am
Whats good joe.. hope i’m not late cause there’s like a zillion entries. i’m an average dude that has an inside YEARNING to get the hell out of this body. I’ve tried your book so many times that i’m getting a little annoyed myself. I’ve also tried DavidDeangelo’s Ebook too! I feel like nothing is working for me.. I have successfully picked ONE girl up and after a lot of good times and a LOT of bad times.. it ended in failure.. maybe i’m not looking for true love yet, but i’m still trying to be picky! it’s hard when there is no selection to choose from. Am I not reading in-depth enough? I still get afraid of rejection SOMETIMES and the jitters SOMETIMES.
January 27th, 2007 at 1:07 am
The reason I want to receive this system is to establish rapport with the people I meet. This goes further though, not just for the sole purpose of sleeping with a woman, or having a long term relationship. As potential seducers/PUAs/Boyfriends/lovers, etc. learning how to create powerful connections transcends the plane of romance and sex. Rapport is something that can be used consistently to improve daily life. For instance, I sell real estate for a living, it’s whats been putting me through grad school. Being able to establish rapport with a potential seller or buyer is a must! Thus learning a system to do such things is paramount. Strong rapport can also be established with friends, colleagues, potential business partners or even random people you meet on the street who could very well turn out to be amazing. In essence I want this system because not only will it improve my relationships with women, but I believe that by learning how to properly create and maintain rapport; it will improve my life in general.
January 27th, 2007 at 7:07 am
Hey there. Well, I am still studying and the thing about me is that I do not really know how to Seduce women. Even though, I am kinda okay by myself. But I really want to get over my own fears like, creating physical connections, or just going out with them for a date. I’m a little overweight, short and have acne problems but my talents in the performing arts makes up for it. People see me as quite a fun guy to be with, sometimes funny or just stuck in my own world singing randomly made up tunes and they will say “What the heck are you doing?” I just say “Isnt it obvious?” and get back to singing.
Well, I can’t get over this girl that I broke up with sometime ago. We usually call and talk for hours on the phone still…she would usually say about the cute guys she has in her class and stuff like that. I would simply say “Uh-huh.” and we’ll talk about other stuff.
Soon we will be talking about relationships and sex. And behold, she usually gets turned on. And sometimes will just want to hear a bedtime story.
I’m treating her as a friend in a way.
I’m trying to move on and get over her, but it doesn’t seem to be easy.
So I’ll continue to talk to other girls, make more friends and shed the pounds off.
But there’s a few people out there which are jealous of me because of my musical talents so they make fun of me being overweight. And pick fights with me because they know I fight well too…just that I don’t fight for the wrong reasons. I just laugh it off most of the time and back off.
All these stops my chances from having success with women and I can’t really get my life going. I tried stuff like routines and Speed Seduction but they’re just too complicated for me,even fixing up my inner game doesn’t help. I still feel like a lonely guy in me. Most of my guy friends have their girlfriends and theres a guy who has a girlfriend, which is actually someone that I had a crush on for months long ago. He still flirts around here and there stealing every chance that I had with women/girls. Here and there he takes the chance say some bad things about my personal life because I was once really close to him..introduced him to David Deangelo’s stuff and the book called “The Game”.
Girls that I talk to usually talk about him..so I asked them why.And they said that they could connect so well with him. So I was thinking how can he connect that well? Rapport? But how do I get rapport going?
Well, I really want to be successful too. But not because of winning anyone. I care of my own success. Not just getting physical but really creating a real connection with people. And building up my own Inner Game and Success with Women, making more friends too.
I want something that really works, that expresses the real me and not some fake confident guy with fake inner game and techniques.
I got my own Goals to achieve. I got my own dreams to live. I gotta start doing the things that makes me happy. But I don’t really know how. I need more friends in my life and also more success with women and I don’t like being a lonely freak.
I need….something that is the real stuff, that helps me in life and what life has to offer. That helps me achieve my dreams and passions. That makes me shine brightly. That gives me what I really want. That teaches me lessons that I never learned.
I need to break through the looking glass and finally, breathe the air that I am desperate for. That I’ll want to make things happen..not be the one sitting down on the television looking at the wonders of Men.
I know that it won’t come from staying where I am. And the time that is flying will never stop, because things change. Nothing always remain the same.
I need something that’ll help me cope with the world. That is moving too fast for me to keep up. That’ll help me move in my own pace. And to finally be a real Man.
To be able to finally break that barrier between me and people. Being successful with Women, making new friends in my life..and just helping others that are like me next time. To help me make an impact to the world. And to change, for the better.
I happen to stumble into your stuff…and from that moment I read that sample. I know that it was the one.
January 27th, 2007 at 10:29 am
Wow, you really must be sick of reading these by now man, if you actually do read them all. Some are ridiculously long.
The influencial techniques that you have been using (of which, I have a vague knowledge) to generate such interest in your new programme, have been clearly as triumphant as David D’s ability to market his products.
The point is that I have been really into the community for a short-ish time and why I deserve a free copy more than ne1 else who can truly say.
Point being and to quote from a very inspirational book “when one is truly ready for a thing, it puts in its appearance.”
To be honest I am scheptical of whether your techniques are any more definitive than anything else on the market but still I write this as I listen to your recent conference call, go figure.
January 27th, 2007 at 11:18 am
I just want to make a girl smile all over, I want to wrap her up in rapport, connect to her on a hundred different levels and touch her spirit. I don’t want to settle. Not for ‘average’. Not for games. Not for ’seduction’ just for seduction’s sake. I’d rather have connections. That’s why i’m so charged about Renegade Rapport. A few years back, I read this little book called “Instant Rapport” which was a fantastic eye opener, but I never really was able to make it work in a practical attraction way, esp. with really beautiful girls. I could sense that it was possible, but I think your course, Joe, is the bridge I missed. The one that will take me and all other guys from “hello” to “who ARE you??” in a fun, subtle, positive, totally connected way. In a way that’s just me and just her and no games, no routines, no canned stories, no magic tricks. Just a little banter, two lives touching for a moment, a bond worth sharing. THAT’S what i’m after. I’m so excited about your new approach!! Can’t wait to dive in…
January 27th, 2007 at 1:08 pm
I would love to have this Renegade Rapport to regain my lost experiences with women that I have been losing in the past decade. Now, I’m 28, still practically a (depressed) virgin. Hopefully, I don’t have to be alone any longer and completely destroy the idea of being with a call-girl again.
It’s nice to see people like you trying to help their conspecifics to be successful and happy with women.
If I don’t win this ? I would still be buying it. Because, you’ve convinced me that this Renegade Rapport thing “REALLY” works.
Thank you !
January 27th, 2007 at 6:37 pm
Hi Joseph,
I understand that I’m relatively late here, and I’m not eloquent. I’m not going to write reams upon reams of pages like so many here have done to try and convince you to give your new course to them.
I’m Asian, from Singapore - halfway around the world, and a person you will not probably meet in the next decade. I’m comparatively young to many of you guys, a student. But for a long time, I was kept enthralled by the PUA community, hearing of escapade after escapade. These past 13 months, I’ve realised that these people were actors putting on a play for which I could not get into the character “player” for. There is no way that such superficial skin-deepness is what I would aim for in life.
So I’ve taken the step. Become proactive, organised my life according to my values that I truly value, Scheduling my priorities for the things I truly prioritise. Your Renegade Rapport has really struck me, it doesn’t focus on the superficiality of being a “player”, it is real, and it keeps it real. I would be lying if I said I wasn’t skeptical, or that I still don’t have the skeptic’s pick in me as I type this. That’s bull. Only fools are 100% sold by marketing.
But I see promise in your program to be a real cornerstone in a person’s life. You seem to be truly a man who wants to help others see the picture, and achieve the potentials in every Man. I’ve seen a few posts, and many of them focus around the girls. To me, that’s secondary. Values, principles, that’s what truly defines Life for me. If one stands for nothing, one will fall for anything. I see within your program, the potential to be a key cornerstone in any Man’s life, and I would very much love to given the opportunity to see and develop this potential in this man’s life.
Fulfilling your mission and mine,
Kenneth
January 27th, 2007 at 11:50 pm
After 26 years of existence, resulting a total of 5 girlfriends and still ZERO relationships lasting longer than 2 months. I have to say I was shy, not very opinionated, acting to be the busy guy, the one that always waits for friends to call me as if I was more important than them. With women, it was worse. Everytime I see a girl that I felt instant attraction to, I would act like the cool guy and show disinterest in them, by pretending that I’m not looking at them, when deep down inside I was. Everytime I worked up the courage to speak to someone that I was attracted to I would freeze up and fear would grow inside of me like a demon slowly possessing my body and paralysing me to the point where I cannot do anything, remain silently awkward, not knowing what to say in case I screw up then curse myself when the girl had left. Then the same routine would shortly follow and I would go home alone and miserable just wondering “WHY my social life and love life was digging a hole straight to hell right before my very own eyes? This was a problem and I had to fix it.
It was not until recently that I made the hardest decision of my life and decided to throw it all in and fix this, I SOLD my car, QUIT my job, said goodbye to all my family and 5 closest friends in Australia and jetted off to a country where I was totally all on my own, put into the most extreme environment and completely out of my comfort zone. Not knowing anyone at all was daunting enough and just wondering how I was going to survive this socially? I did not know but I was forcing myself to fix the problem, it wasn’t a choice, it had to be fixed and it was the only way I knew how. Hoping that by the end of my journey of meeting different people all around the world on my travels that it would have shaped and moulded me into one that is more sociable, more believing, more passionate, more confident, more enthusiastic, and more lovable.
My first destination, I headed off to was Canada with a backpack and one book that my friend recommended me to buy and read which will keep me entertained throughout my journey. It was called “The Game - by Neil Strauss.” After 1 week of solid reading and juggling working to support myself and settling into a new environment and country, I finished the book cover to cover. Need I say, it was this one book that I definitely needed to kick start what I was set out to achieve. It opened my eyes to a community that I was totally unaware of and never knew existed and it led me thirsty for more. I needed to find out more about the community, so I did a quick search on google and “The Art of Approaching” came up, the name summed it up I needed to know what it was all about. I had a problem in approaching, not only with women but everyone. I figured if the book was at least half of what it said it was, then it may even help me on my travels to meeting people easier so I crossed my fingers took a deep breath and before my mind could back out on my decision to buy it. I had already clicked on the Confirm Payment button. I mean it was all about developing myself into the new me so I thought of it as an investment.
The following week I went through the whole ebook. I went out to the field applied some openers and of course, disassociated myself from the outcome as the book had said and I had the best night in my entire life. Just the sensation of talking to tonnes of women and having a proper conversation was purely amazing, it wasn’t even just women too, I was talking to everyone and even opening group sets. Back home I would have just stood in the bar eyeing off all the other guys while they chatted and kissed the girls and wishing I was in their shoes. This is why I can so relate to what I had finally learnt in the ebook, it changed my beliefs about women, it changed my belief of acting as the busy guy and waiting for everyone else to call. I had learnt to use active disinterest rather than inactive disinterest. I had learnt socialising and friendship is a two way street, you have to meet them in the middle and not let one person go all the way. It is about being proactive and not reactive. It was not knowing any of this that was holding me back before. I use to think it was all about the looks but boy was I wrong. I mean I’m not a super hunk but I can say I’m an alright looking guy. I mean my brother was pulling in chicks all the time but I wasn’t and for god sake we are identical twins. So it couldn’t of been just looks. I just didn’t know how to use what I had. But after reading the ebook, I even went on to get the Advanced Mulitmedia Course and went through that. Now I can say I have the knowledge and the skill of what 90% of Men don’t know in this world. I have finally developed into being more confortable around women, having more fun, having different beliefs, knowing the strategies to actually pickup women. I have number closed, kiss closed and even gotten laid. These are the results that I have gotten only after 3 months by following the bootcamp and following the techniques outlined in the course, it has been truly outstanding. It has not only helped me learn a lot about picking up women, but it has helped me change me for the better, I am more confident, more outspoken, and have learnt to love myself and hopefully when I do go back home to Australia, I will present the new me. So to this, I sincerley thank you Joseph Matthews for sharing your knowledge and helping me develop myself into a better me.
So I have no doubt in my mind that owning my own copy of the Renegade Rapport Courses will be a God Send to what I am set out on my journey to achieve. Understanding how to build rapport will be a skill that I would harvest and use for the rest of my life. I am already so satisfied with the knowledge that I have been fortunate enough to learn and am amazed at how far I have come before I left home 3 months ago. With Renegade Rapport it will be the Holy Grail to the next chapter to what I am set out to achieve. So if this entry draws short of winning me a copy of the course, even if I have to cut of a limb, sell my backpack and the clothes that I have on my back just to buy this course. Either way I will be getting this course.
Love the quote “Believe and you will Achieve”
Howe
January 28th, 2007 at 10:17 am
Why do I want to have the Renegade Rapport? - First off, who wouldn’t? Rapport is the social web that defines our existence in this life. Here is where my motivation for having the Renegate Rapport started…
[Flash back 3 weeks ago]
I meet a very cool girl. She’s a cute asian girl with both brain and beauty; and likes to dress sexy. She definitively fit my wish list’s criteria.
I meet her online and chat with her maybe once before. I invited her to come hangout at the coffee shop we chat for awhile. I first I thought she was just cute with no real substance. Later on, she called me to go at the a bikini bar where she going to start working. We chat for a while, and then dance. She dress very sexy and is very sensual when dancing. One of the waitress pull her away for a while and invited her to join her to some jocks’ house party afterward, but she decline.
After the bar closed, the two of us when for a bite and chatted for about 2 hours. We finish the night with a hug - I didn’t kissed her at any point before and it wouldn’t have feel right then… Nonetheless, I left the night thinking: “Wow, this is an awesome chick! I really hope we manage to hit it off”
The next day, this is the dialogue I read between her and one of her friends on myspace.com:
hmmm whatcha been up to missy? how’s school going? hit me up poopoo head we should chill…i wuv u!
Her: So, i love you i love you i love you.. that’s all.. heehee.. oh yeah i met this guy.. (didn’t really feel a vibe) but he’s cool to talk to.. and he knows his astrology shit like crazy.. never met a dood like that before.
Her friend: a dude into ass-trology??? me thinks he may be gay
Her: no no he’s not, he is actually really really nice.. but he knows more than me.. lol ;l anyhow, twins on thursday night for sure, ya. I think Shahana mama might try to make it.. if she gets of early enough.
Like David DeAngelo would say, “Attraction isn’t a choice” and obviously I didn’t manage to generate enough of it – I was mad at myself for not connecting with her at a deeper level. Reading the words “didn’t really feel a vibe” felt like being stab by a dagger.
[Back to the Present]
Now don’t worry, I’m not clinging on her as if my life depended on it. I did the only reasonable thing to do at this point: Meet other women! Although I still keep casual contact with her in hope of generating attraction in the long run, I know that I missed the opportunity of generating meaningful rapport with her.
I’ve read a lot of dating material, such as DYD, MM and AOA (of course), and they’ve been usefull to improving my game. Deep down I believe that connecting with someone is not about canned routine, but true Rapport. Not that I hope for a ‘Silver Bullet’, but if I get this copy of the Renegade Rapport, I’m confident I won’t be subject to this kind of experience again. And you never know… maybe with a little luck, she’ll be my date on Valentine’s Day
All the best, and congratulation on your new release.
-Hyrik
January 28th, 2007 at 3:04 pm
I would like Renegade Rapport because to be serious I would be pretty close to PUA if it weren’t for rapport. Attraction levels are pretty high, but the next time out, I realized it didn’t carry over. I hate it. I tried to start agreeing with her on everything and realized I was turning wussy and was sucking up. So I really don’t know what to do. Go Bears!!!!
January 28th, 2007 at 5:28 pm
I would absolutely love a copy of Renegade Rapport. I think a lot of other instruction courses, seminars, or workshops focus on the attract part, then leave you hanging there after. Sometimes other programs will tell you, at that point, that “you’ll figure it out” from there. Why fumble around and miss opportunities when you can have a backbone or frame to work from? That is what I’m hoping Renegade Rapport will provide: The foundation for the intermediate and most important step in pick-up.
January 28th, 2007 at 6:40 pm
Ok, I’m not going to say I am by any means the most deserving person here for this, Let me explain to you my situation and why I am interested in this.
First off I am a 25 year old Virgin, 50% by choice and 50% by circumstance. When I was in high school I was an Overweight, Unpopular, Too Sensitive, Suburban kid going to an extremely Redneck school. Needless to say I was tortured.
Anyway I ended up closing myself off from the other kids and being anti social for years, after high school I had extremely low self esteem and felt terrible about myself, but I got tired of being a victim. So I starting taking Taekwondo karate and it helped bring my self esteem way back up. I have since made a lot of friends and became vary social. Also I have lost A LOT of weight, got a decent job, got into decent shape, and gained my second degree black belt, and according to my friends I am rather attractive. I have accomplished 85% of what I lost originally. However the area I have not conquered yet is dating and relationships. I have never really had a girlfriend, and only kissed one girl. I seem to be attractive to woman, and I have been able to get some dates, although I rarely make it to the 2nd or 3rd date. After reading the information you have given me about rapport, I think my main problem with woman is that I don’t know how to develop rapport. A skill most guys learned in high school, I feel I missed because of my unique experience.
Anyway I came to your site because I am looking for answers. I feel an increasing ache within me to find the affection that I have gone so long without. Most my friends don’t seem to understand why I have such a hard time because they see me as one of their more attractive friends.
Anyway I don’t know if I am the most deserving person here to receive this, But I can tell you I will certainly review it and put it to use and see where it takes me.
Thanks
January 29th, 2007 at 6:44 pm
As I’ve read down through the posts of guys trying to win your new ebook, I’m surprised at how many of them who claim to be reading lots of other pick up material are doing something very wrong: they are trying too hard! Way too hard! Blah, blah, blah, I need it so bad, please, please give it to me…
While you may think they need it, then, more than I, I would say that because I already “get” what I need to do and how to be naturally confident around women, I would like this program in order to get over my one stumbling block: difficulty with convincing openers. Your well-advertised “no lines, no routines” teaser is smart and intriguing because canned lines sound so stilted.
I’m also interested in just reading about pick-up theory and human interactions - I find it fascinating. It is not just about getting girls, it’s an internal mindset that you have control over your own destiny. This would be a great additional read. Because I’m only eighteen and I have to go off to school this fall, I won’t be able to afford a copy. I’d like a copy, though, and so “please please please give it to me give it to me!” I’d use it. ‘Nuff said.
January 29th, 2007 at 8:16 pm
Hello Joseph,
I purchased AOA on Xmas 2006, eager to change my life for good, willing to approach and to date HBs of my dreams. As soon as I got your book, I tried to read as much as I could, trying to grasp all those concepts that was brand new stuffs to me. Thanks to your follow-up mails, I didn’t give up when things were getting really tricky: talking to girls without fear of rejection, opening sets with interesting conversations… I kept faith in spite of some failures, but improved myself a lot. I can feel a change in my behavior, and believe me I come from very far! That was all the more difficult that I had to read in English, and practice in French
But now, my closest friends noticed how more confident I became.
But what now? Did I become a PUA?
Hell, no! Not yet. It’s way too early. I succeeded in numclosing six cuties in the streets so far (and I was so baffled the first time it happened! And yes, I’m counting the sucess stories, it’s good for my mood). Dated two of them. Owing to your advices on confidences, openers (love the “two” opener), to the “fish and hook” techniques, and to socializers.
Fundamentals mentioned in AOA like routines, body language (watch the eyes!), practicing storytelling, etc., are absolutely necessary IMHO. Not only for the Game, but for life. However, it takes time and a lot of (rewarding though) effort.
But how can I bring my game to the next level? How to improve the skills i’m actually learning with AOA more efficiently?
Then came the Renegade Rapport.
I already had the opportunity to try one simple stuff from your Renegade Report you let us read: trying to body synchronize. I tried it with one of my date recently. And I realized how the girl could feel at one moment in our conversation… she was somewhat nervous! Her feet was tapping quickly on the floor, she was slowing glancing everywhere in the room, even when she was talking to me. By adopting a gesture similar to her (and not exactly like her as you recomended), I realized what she felt. And I didn’t notice that before! So I could joke and drop a funny line about her nervousness, and then she laughed and felt immediately more relaxed. This mere RR advice was so effective in order to understand her feelings!
So I’m convinced that the Renegade Rapport can really support my AOA knowledge. I see it as a life accelerator! AOA is still the foundation, and RR will be the structure taking my game, and my life, even higher. AOA, with lots of practice and reflexions on oneself, with callings into question, is a way to master one’s life. RR is just the next level.
Cheers, and thanks for your work,
Plume.
January 30th, 2007 at 5:00 am
Hey Joseph,
I may very well be the last guy to have a word on this. I’m sure you’ll still be reading up to here, and I want to tell you simply why it would make a profound difference in my life.
Your product seems to have nailed it. It’s got everything that many shallow seduction systems lack. It has answers.
I believe this product is not just for the girls, for the ladies. I truly and deeply believe that what you are marketing is applicable to any part of life. Simply, it is such a powerful concept, rapport is the fuel of all human interactions. Rapport can truly help and change the realities of any person’s life.
You’ve been rather humble about it in spite of this, and talked about it mostly in the context of sexes, Males and Females. To me, it seems life defining. I cannot tell you what anticipation I have for the release of this product.
Let me tell you abit about myself. I’m 17, a student. I’m very young compared to so many out there who want a great girl in their lives. I’ve got many things to learn from many of you. The path out there is a blank slate from where I am, and I believe your product can truly walk with me on that path, a skillset and a system which I can carry throughout my life from the shades of this formative period.
I’ll be very frank here, Joseph. I can’t afford Renegade Rapport right now. I can’t buy Renegade Rapport when it comes out, and I would really give a leg to see and feel the power of magical rapport in life. I truly believe in your product, and I hope I can supercharge my life with the skills you teach in this life’s work of yours. As I said, I’m a student, 17, and I’ve got my life laid out for me. The world’s an oyster, and I wish to set out on my great adventure in the world with Renegade Rapport by my side. Your product has convinced me profoundly. Your work is an inspiration, and truly appreciated by me. Renegade Rapport is a lifechanging product, and I hope you will give me that opportunity.
Sincerely,
Aaron
January 30th, 2007 at 8:04 pm
Hey Joseph,
man, i have tried all those other dating programs that have me memorizing all these lines and openers and almost gave up because of all the stuff that i did memorize (which wasnt alot, lol), i recieved almost no success. well if u call hug a success then yea, i did. i almost gave up, having spent all my money on the others and seeing no improvement, but then i got a listen to the interview you did with david deangelo, and how you stated the concept of rapport. i had no idea wat that ment at the time, so i looked it up and got more interested in how this could get girls. then, after signing up to ur email, and getting your book “the art of approaching” (which is great by the way), i got your sneek peek of the renegade rapport pda, and thats when you got me! i couldnt wait, yet i had no choice because i have no money (recently fired from a bank). well anyways Joseph, not to bore you any further, i really think i should get that renegade rapport giveaway, because i really believe thats the missing link to my lack of love!
——Francisco Resendes, CA—-
January 31st, 2007 at 10:51 pm
Hey Joseph,
I felt that your first book art of approaching was part two of what the Renegade Rapport is going to be. I feel that it has a more of a basic structure you need to know before you can know how to become sucessful with women. It’s all about progression. 12PM Feb 1, 2007 it is I’ll hope to chat with you later.
September 24th, 2007 at 8:26 pm
Hey, Joseph! How’s it going?
In the midst of the mad rush you’re no doubt experiencing getting all this ready, I’m compelled to say, I am blown away already just by the freebies you’ve handed out together with the launch of Renegade Rapport. Thanks so much for those. You hit on everything I feel is missing or simply glossed over in the community. I’ve always known, on a primal level that the relationships I have with people will be the most important thing about my life. I once had a beautiful girl who I was hopelessly in love with, and I lost her. She opened up to me so intimately and so deeply that I was just awed, but I just didn’t know how to handle it, and it took me 2 years to get over her. As god as my witness I refuse, REFUSE to let that happen to me again.
Fast forward a few years, I’ve been getting into the pickup community, and realizing how much the world needs this. We all crave intimacy, I want to be so open and giving that I become a wellspring of positive energy and confidence so that people who come in contact with me are better off for the experience. I share my experiences with my close friends, my successes, my failures and my ideas because I love them and want them to get what I’m experiencing, like this is the way life was always meant to be, but we’re too scared of getting hurt to allow ourselves it.
I’ve come so far, but I’ve hit a barrier. Everyone in the community knows, that you can have all the sincerity and physical skill in the world, but if you don’t go up and meet people, it won’t happen. I’ve worked on it, I’ve gotten to where I can dive into any situation and be friendly with everyone. But I get stuck! I can flirt up a storm, but they always lose interest, and I know exactly why, but I’m at a loss for creating those powerful connections between us. I’m at the point in my life where I want to be seeing a lot of different kinds of people, learn and grow myself and I’d love to share it with all kinds of girls. Girls I feel comfortable and close with, girls I can trust because I KNOW we feel open with each other.
There are stumbling blocks to me getting the relationships and girls I really want, and I’ll keep working on those, but if I don’t get this key component, I can’t shake the feeling that none of it will matter in the long run. I’d really like a free copy, and I’ll appreciate it no less, knowing the value of the work you’ve put into it, but honestly, I’ll probably buy it otherwise.
Cheers!
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