The Future Of The Seduction Community

I got a rather interesting question from a reader who is wondering about what direction the seduction community will be taking in 2007.  I found it quite intriguing, especially since I personally believe that 2007 is going to see a shift away from a lot of what has become “standard fare” in the seduction community, and will move towards more “natural” methods of attraction.

I have a question I’m hoping you could answer.

From my perspective Neil Strauss understands the “training wheels” theory of using routines to develop the natural ability to communicate and attract women. I’m troubled though by the over-exposure and almost disturbing obsession with certain routines found in The Game like Jealous Girlfriend which Neil Strauss is still promoting.

The evolution in the community seems to be headed towards natural game in the style of Juggler. I’ve even heard rumors that Tyler Durden’s long anticipated Blueprint E-Book will ditch routines and instead focus on how to become a “cool” guy who has appropriate social skills not just with women but with everybody.

I’m just wondering if you had any thoughts regarding this in relation to your product which ditches the community’s long held focus on routines. Is this truly the future of the community?

Take care,
John

Hi John,

I can tell you this…

I do agree with Neil Strauss that pre-canned routines can be great training wheels for guys new to dating and seduction, because it helps them to get out and actually INTERACT with women.

I know when I first started trying to improve my skills with women – this was my bread and butter.

I had something like 15 routines memorized and ready to go.  I’d spend hours making up my own stuff and testing it out.

Having something to say to a girl can sometimes be the difference between success and failure – especially when you’re just starting out.

I don’t see the pre-canned stuff ever going away.  If one type of routine gets too well known, as you seem to think the Jealous Girlfriend is, a new one will always pop up to replace it.  That’s the nature (and beauty) of the technology.

Out with what doesn’t work, in with what does!

But I would have to agree with you that I feel the new method I am trying to popularize is going to be the future of the community.

(For those of you wondering about this new method, check this link out.)

I won’t be so arrogant as to say it definitely WILL be, but I’m hoping it is, because I feel it’s a much more natural way of teaching men seduction.

The success I have had with it has been very encouraging to me – especially since I’ve basically tried out every system there is out there.

The Renegade Rapport product is actually going to be the next building block off the Art Of Approaching, so it doesn’t do away with pre-canned material entirely, but it does take the focus off routines and more on genuine interaction between two people.

The seduction community has always tried to emulate the “natural seduction” methods of guys who just seem to be able to attract women wherever.

I’d even go so far as to say that more so than Juggler (and definitely more so than Tyler Durden), Zan over at enlightenedseduction.com has mastered this process.

And I think that when people see Renegade Rapport for themselves, they’ll have an even better understanding of how a natural truly operates.