Do You Think Girls Don’t Find You Attractive?
There are lots of reasons guys get frustrated with the process of dating women.
Not the least of which is the idea that there is something about them that is unattractive to the opposite sex.
Look, we all have things about us that we don’t like.
(After all, we know ourselves better than anyone else.)
But here’s the thing…
IF YOU LET YOUR LOOKS DETERMINE YOUR HAPPINESS, YOU WILL NEVER BE HAPPY!
There is no such thing as “Perfection.”
You will always be either too fat, or too skinny, or too bald, or your ears stick out a little bit too much…
There will ALWAYS be something about yourself that you don’t like!
But the simple fact of the matter is this - just because YOU don’t like it, doesn’t mean others won’t.
You never know what physical attributes women will find attractive. So why try to obsess over what you THINK they won’t like?
I used to think that just because I’m overweight, that meant girls wouldn’t like me.
But I’ve seen TONS of overweight guys who had smoking hot girlfriends!
And I used to think that, if they could get a girl being fatter than me, then I could most certainly get a girl too!
You know what? I WAS RIGHT!!!
For every shortcoming you think you have, take a look around. Chances are, there’s some guy out there with the same shortcoming who’s succeeded with it.
Let me share a secret with you…If you don’t think you’re a good looking enough man, there are 2 THINGS you can do to overcome this sabotaging way of thinking.
The first is to focus on things about yourself you DO like.
Women always compliment me on my eyes, my smile, and my laugh.
So instead of focusing on the stuff I don’t like, I focus on the positive aspects of my appearance.
I make sure not to wear glasses or sunglasses when I’m out to meet women, because I want them to see my eyes. (I also make strong eye contact)
I smile alot, and try to laugh a lot when I’m with a girl.
In short: I put my positive traits up front and center!
The second thing you need to do is be aware that CONFIDENCE trumps LOOKS 9 times out of 10.
Don’t believe me? Ask any girl what they find most attractive in a man, and 90% of them will say “confidence.”
If you have confidence, nothing else matters.
So how do you get and/or improve your confidence?
Well, you can start by reading The Art Of Approaching - DUH!
I go into EXTREME detail on all the tricks and tactics I used to go from a whining, sniveling, wussy to haveing iron-clad confidence with women.
Seriously, this makes ALL the difference!
And if I can do it, then you DEFINITELY can.
And get your own copy. You can be reading it in seconds.
See what a difference these tactics make, and you’ll be amazed.