How To Meet Women On MySpace
One of the most popular online social networking websites operating today is MySpace. Despite the popularity of other sites like Facebook and Twitter, MySpace is still going strong and isn’t going away anytime soon.
With a userbase of over 200 million members, MySpace is the perfect candidate to use in your efforts to meet women. In fact, it’s one of the best resources available to guys looking to find women to date!
Why is this?
Because not only is MySpace free to use (a feature which ensures many, many women will use it), but MySpace actually augments, and to a certain extent, replaces the social lives of the women who use it!
What I mean by this is, women who use MySpace regularly depend on it to keep in touch with friends and fulfill their social needs. A busy girl with no time for dating or going out with friends can still feel connected to people by logging onto MySpace, chatting, sending emails, and seeing updates from their friends.
Not only that, women on MySpace tend to skew younger, which means the average age for girls who use MySpace is between 18 and 30. This actually makes meeting the women on MySpace a much easier task, because many of the women you’ll be contacting aren’t as jaded as women who’ve been playing the dating game for years.
On top of everything else, there’s a huge advantage to using MySpace to meet women because people don’t think of it as a “dating site,” therefore you’ll find lots of girls aren’t expecting guys to contact them and try and pick them up.
This means the barrier to meeting women is far less than a site that’s more of a “meat market,” like Match.com. The reason for this is because girls on dating sites get deluged with emails from guys trying to “get with them.” On MySpace, girls typically only get emails from people they know.
So here are a few easy steps you can follow to start meeting beautiful women on MySpace…
STEP 1: Create A Profile
Creating a profile on MySpace is free and very easy to do. In fact, the whole process will take you less than five minutes to complete.
STEP 2: Fill Out Your Profile
Once your profile is created, you’ll want to put information about yourself on it. Think of it like creating a profile for a dating site. You’ll want to have a flattering picture of yourself, an interesting headline that will grab people’s attention, and some information about yourself and the type of woman you are looking to meet.
Be sure to include your interests in your profile. This is a great way to give people conversation topics to chat with you about after checking out your profile.
You can also personalize your profile by changing the theme of your layout, adding music you like, adding videos you enjoy, and a whole host of other things to make your profile more personal.
STEP 3: Add People You Know As Friends
After your profile is created, invite some people you know to become friends with you. Having a small number of friends helps you look more “normal.” It’s inadvisable to begin contacting women right away without having any friends yet, since this makes it look like you’re just trying to use the site to meet chicks (something that’s actually a turn off for most girls on MySpace!)
MySpace makes this easy by accessing your address book and sending out friend requests via email. But be sure to only send an invite to people you feel comfortable letting see your profile! You may want to uncheck coworkers and the like.
STEP 4: Search For Women
MySpace has a great search feature that allows you to look for exactly the type of people you’d like to be “friends” with. Just click the Search button, but be sure to use the “Advanced Search” option.
This will allow you to search based on gender, age, race, height, and most importantly, location!
I typically like to search for women, age 18-30, who are interested in dating, within 10 miles of my zip code.
The results you get should be numerous, especially if you live in or around a big city. Simply browse through the pictures in the results, and find girls you think are attractive, and check out their profile pages.
STEP 5: Contact Women
Once you find a profile you like, click the button to send them an email. This is done through MySpace’s system.
Your email should be short, sweet, and most of all – fun and interesting!
Sending an email that just says “Hey what’s up?” won’t get you anywhere. Instead, make your email one to two paragraphs, commenting on something about her and how well you think you’d get along.
So sending an email like:
“Hey, I was just checking through MySpace and stumbled across your profile. You seem totally awesome! Seriously, if you were living in the 80′s, you’d probably be ranked up there with Def Leopard and Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, that’s how awesome your profile is, lol.
Anyway, we should chat. Email me back and tell me what your favorite 80′s movie is, and we’ll compare notes.”
As you can see, the response above is short, interesting, somewhat humorous, and bound to get a girl’s attention.
Contact as many women as you like using this method.
STEP 6: Follow Up
You’ll find most women you contact will begin to respond to you. Continue to email back and forth, and even add them as a friend if you like them. Allow them to get to know you.
Once enough rapport has been built up, you say you’re bored with email and ask them for their number so you can text them.
Telling them you’re going to text them as opposed to call them is important, because then they’ll be sure to give you their cell phone number, and they’re not committing to have to talk to you on the phone. Most girls will be willing to share their cell phone number if you approach them like this.
Once you have the number, start texting, ask when a good time to chat is, and then call them up at the appropriate time to set up a date, or a get-together.
It’s really that simple to meet women on MySpace. And you’ll find the quality of women, in terms of looks, is much better than most paid dating sites!
Here are some other quick tips to help you use MySpace to get dates…
- Download MySpace Messenger so you can chat with your friends and other women when you’re online. IM sessions go a long way towards establishing rapport!
- Look through your friend’s friends to find girls you like. Meeting through someone you both mutually know can make the transition to romance much easier than approaching a girl you don’t know.
- Dating is a numbers game, so try and meet as many women through MySpace as possible to maximize your chances of finding a winner.
- Ask women you meet throughout your life if they’re on MySpace, and get their email so you can add them as friends. This is a great way to keep in touch and follow up with women you’re interested in.
- Don’t worry about messing things up with one girl. There are so many women on MySpace, and new ones signing up every day, you’ll always have another chance to get things right.
Meeting women on MySpace can be fun, easy, and most of all – effective! Instead of wasting your time on paid dating sites, give MySpace a shot and see what kind of results you can get.