How Do “Ugly” Guys Attract Women?
It’s a sad fact of life that everyone out there has some type of insecurity that makes them feel “unattractive.” Even the most beautiful women in the world have stuff about them that makes them feel ugly at times.
For men – their visual nature can often times make them very critical of their own appearance. There is always something that makes us feel as though we are ugly.
Maybe it’s the fact that we are too short, or fat, or bald, or old? There are any number of factors that make us feel “unworthy” of the attentions of beautiful women.
But if that was the case – no one would ever be able to attract a woman at all!
In fact, the next time you’re out, take a mental note of every guy you see with an attractive girl, and try and appraise whether or not you think that guy’s looks are worthy of the girl he’s with.
Sure, sometimes you’ll find a guy who’s with a girl and they are both fine credits to their species. But most of the time, what you’ll find is the guys with really hot and appealing women range from “average” to “ugly” in the looks department.
That’s because beauty – in men – is the exception, not the standard.
But more than that, men rely on factors OTHER than their looks to help attract women to them.
There are three major factors that most men try and utilize to the best of their ability when attracting new and exciting women to them. They are:
- Social Status
Let’s go through these one at a time…
The first factor men use to attract women is their wealth, or finances. Proving one’s “provider” status to women is a sure fire way to get female attention. After all, what woman DOESN’T want to be pampered?
However, there is a big problem with this tactic. First of all, not everyone is rich or wealthy, so this factor is reserved for the few that are. More than that, women often feel like you’re trying to “bribe” or “impress” them with your wealth, and because of that, they will treat you more like an ATM machine with feet, rather than a loving, caring, mate.
Keep in mind that there is nothing wrong with using financial success to draw women into you. But unless you have the money in the bank to do so, you can’t rely on this method to get you a good woman.
The second factor is social status. Women are very attuned to the social hierarchies of things, so having a “high status” around women definitely makes any man more attractive.
This status comes from holding a certain position of power. It could be an important job, some type of fame, or just the esteem of your peers.
However, one of the difficulties with this is that you need to be able to display social status. You can’t just tell someone “I’m a very important person” and have them believe it. They have to get a sense of it themselves, and sometimes your situation is not conducive to communicating this (like meeting a woman on the street for instance. She has no idea who you are!).
Also – not everyone has a high social status. Some people are content with maintaining a medium to low level status. Where does that leave these people?
With the THIRD factor – that of Personality. The thing I like about personality is that it’s something ANYONE can use to attract the kind of women they desire, and it doesn’t matter how much money you make or what your social situation is like.
Having an attractive personality is the best way for “average” or “unattractive” men to get women interested in them. Being able to make a woman laugh will turn her on more than a guy with big muscles and a full head of hair.
Understand that women are slaves to their emotions, and your personality is the method by which you trigger emotions inside a woman!
The better your personality, the better you’re able to make a woman feel.
And your personality is something that can be changed and cultivated over time. You can make yourself into anything you want to be! It’s truly amazing how some “losers” can become “rockstars” in the eyes of their friends and the women they like just by tweaking their personality a little bit.
So how do you do this?
The first step is to really work on your confidence. The more confident you are, the better you’re able to display your personality.
Working on your social skills will also help you to be relaxed and have fun around women. This will create new opportunities for attraction.
And learning how to create strong emotional bonds is also the best way there is to get a woman emotionally attached to you.
When you use these three techniques, you’ll be able to gain the fancy of any woman you wish – despite WHAT you look like.